Polls: Guy's Behavior

I never tell anyone when I'm on mine except for my female friends if it comes up. However I do hang out with a lot of guys. I only have one real female friend right now, and I haven't even talked to her in a few day. But I have this one guy friend in particular whose kind of like a brother to me, he's a year old, looks out for me and stuff. He ALWAYS knows because he says I get way more emotional. Like generally I'm pretty happy and giggly, but on my period supposedly I get mad and upset easier.

Then there's this other guy I've "kinda" been talking to about dating but we're not really serious about anything yet, and I always just feel like he knows. He spends a lot of our conversations teasing me, which I'm fine with, generally it makes me laugh. But then when that time of the month comes around I actually get mad sometimes, and usually I don't care how long it takes him to text me back, on my period if he doesn't text me back after like four hours, I get kind of mad and when he finally does message me I'll reply with like a one word message to let him know I'm mad, but if he doesn't reply to THAT, then I send another longer message to bait him into replying, and then when he does, I ignore that reply for like an entire day or longer sometimes. Which is bad. And that's probably why he avoids messaging me on my monthly. If he knows at least.

Ok, sorry peeps but Im seriously procrastinating on a speech I have to write lol

But this is somethng I noticed, and some chubby girl on here asked if men would date a big girl. I told her that men from poorer backgrounds are more likely, and I live in the hood, have found this true. Like you'll even have men reject you for being "too thin". And when we complain about not being able to find guys who dont expect hourglass, guys say its usually the richest/sexiest men that do. Which is false, because rich men actually prefer slim figures.
And then people say things like "its because they dont have much options, thats why they have to prefer big women". Which I dont agree with. here's why:

Men with higher incomes are more likely to prefer smaller breasts. Larger breasts are seen as more "desired", possibly since most of us aren't the 1% lol, and men with lots of money would probably easily be able to find sexy thin women with big boobs, yet they dont want that. They tend to prefer slim frames, with small to average proportions.

There are even countries and communities that want big women, and fatten them up. And they tend to be in poverty, like Mauritania.

Many rich guys, celebrities, marry thin women. Yes, I get it, they also marry rich women, however, i find it hard to believe that there aren't many curvy rich beauties lol I only see mostly black celebrities marrying curvy/thick women (sorry if that sounds racist, but Kanye is with Kim whos thick af, and many black celebs marry very curvy ladies. Jay z etc.)

Dont get me wrong, theyre beautiful. But its always been strange to me that rich men can pretty much have it all, yet they choose women who aren't so curvy/hourglass, which is what is seen as most desirable.

Im not trying to be a prying gold digger, but in the poll, what type of women do you like, and what is your income?

I think that white guys who date Asian women mostly do it because they can't date white women. Do you agree?

I was sitting at a table and this guy that knows i have a crush on, walks by and we just lock eyes until he goes out of view. It was really weird yet I don't know if he likes me because the only thing he's done is stare and not approach.

I've also heard that he was upset that I stopped looking at him.

his friends keep looking at me too

Yo! So I thought I was pretty good looking woman. (I won't provide a picture, sorry not happening). Maybe, I'm not a perfect ten but I didn't think I was below an 8 tbh. However, I never get approached when I put effort into the way I look (which is practically everyday). I always do my makeup and hair every morning, but on the days I slip up (like I did today) and have a bad hair day or go without makeup, guys usually approach me. While that may seem flattering its acually a little offensive and disheartening because I put a lot of effort into looking pretty and it seems to usually go unnoticed. So I was wondering if guys approach a girl who has a ponytail and isn't wearing any makeup more often than they would a girl who is trying (and I think succeeding) to look good is it because they either a. Find her more attractive when she doesn't try so hard, b. Feel a little courageous since she isn't as stunning, c. Find her to be uglier with no makeup and therefore, easier to woo or to have sex with😒, or d. Some other reason

Ps. I am very good at doing hair and makeup I have an eye for the stuff. I dont wear too much either so its not like I come across as a cake face. I dont even wear eyeshadow or contour I just use eyeliner and do my brows most days. So I know its not that I just have bad makeup skills or that Im using too much makeup.

Well it's kinda something that a guy said the other day that's been bothering me a bit. So I have this friend, and usually when we hang out we're getting either high or drunk. Just the two of us though, we never invite other people. But the other day we were messaging, and I had offered him a ride to work, and he goes "I'd appreciate all the rides you're willing to give." Which made me start laughing, thought it was smooth as hell. So I asked how long it took him before he decided to send that, he said he had been debating it for awhile "Because talking to me is a high pressure situation with a lot at stake, and he cares what I think of him." Which at first I thought he was just kinda joking, but then it kinda made me worry that he was actually worried about what I think of him.
Which kinda upsets me a little because, I don't want him to have to worry about that around me. And like, I don't even worry about that around him, and I generally worry about that around EVERYONE. But it's also like, really, we get high and drink together, and he's worried what I think? It makes no sense?

So do guys try to just impress every girl?

a guy told me that having small breasts is masculine, isn't feminine what so ever, and having them even makes you less of woman.

He also compared "flat chested" women to little boys
He says we're both short, we sound the same, and a lot of times look alike.

I know not all guys would say something like that
But is this what men really think?

So I posted a picture on instagram today my caption being "the songs on the radio are okay, but my taste in music is your face." My crush comments this


I dont know what he means. Like he asked me out to the movies yesterday, is he referencing that? Or is he saying that I like good in my photo? Or maybe its something else I don't know.

Whats your opinion?

As a virgin many guys don't pursue a relationship with me because I have no experience. Is it really a turn off to men? Do they prefer an experienced girl who knows how to make them feel good?

I met a rather shy seeming guy online. After several months of talking we finally met and I thought the date went quite well. We went to dinner, stayed talking for a while after dinner, and then and walk around downtown.
He began to talk to me much more and was blowing my phone up, but didn't mention meeting up again for about a week and a half. Since it took so long the first time he askd me out, I asked him if he was free the following weekend thinking it may take the pressure off and might be easier due to his shyness. He told me he would have to get back to me once he saw what his plans were. I waited a week and he didn't mention it again. I let him know since I didn't hear back from him let's just plan something for the next weekend since I was feeling sick (stomach bug). He said that sounded good and same thing nothing mentioned for a week.
I asked him what he was planning on as I needed to know so I could plan. He told me he had something come up and he was busy (he's quite active on social media so he's got time for that). I told him as it seemed we were having issues with getting together to let me know when he was free and we could work something out. Since then he hasn't replied to any texts (we texted daily for two months and I just asked him how his day was going) in about four days. I'm just confused as to why he would act like he was interested and wanted to see me, but has gone MIA?

A man I really like was looking at me when we were having a conversation with another girl and I noticed that he leaned towards me than he did with her and he also raised his eyebrows up and down quickly while looking at me but he didn't raise his eyebrows at the other girl once.

Why did he raise his eyebrows up and down quickly when looking at me? Does he fancy me?