I voted other, I would leave when I am heated and they are not allowing me to have my feelings... I am entitled to have my feelings and I want to be understood too and if they won't let me then I will leave to a place where I can have freedom to have my feelings.
I have this problem a lot with my husband but it is getting better. He doesn't understand feelings and he always thinks that I must be happy all the time, if I am not happy all the time then he will be angry and he will punch holes in the wall along with kick holes in the walls and throw things and punch things (laptop, lamp, chairs, watches everything) so I will just be like... I have the right to be angry... and he will say no you don't... and then I will just leave. He's angry... because I want to be myself. Whatever... you got to be the bigger person who respects yourself and allows yourself to have feelings even when other people don't want you to have any feelings at all. Everyone has feelings and don't say you don't. If your child got killed and you had zero feelings, you're messed up. If someone ran over your dog and he died, and you had zero feelings... that's wrong. If someone burnt down your house and... you get the idea.
ugh I accidently clicked on the wrong answer I meant to pick the last one damn it. I was gonna say that I don't think either one is in control personally I be never punched a wall but I've been angry enough to where I was crying uncontrollably, my brother in the other hand hits things or throws shit in a fit of anger before coming to his senses
To me crying obviously is the lesser of evils but isn't necessarily "in control" depending on the context. Allowing yourself to cry is normal, but busting out into uncontrollable tears and sobs as you yell and blubber nonsense is no more control than putting a fist through the wall. One is just violent, the other incoherent.
"displaying anger by punching a wall is majority of the time *losing* control whereas crying can be maintaining control"
You cry because you can't hold it back... you're not in control anymore where punching the wall can be a controlled way of releasing some pressure.
So, if I argue for one... then like that. The opposite way makes no sense for me... but I'd say that you lose control on both more or less. in my opinion, just swallowing the anger up and moving on is keeping control.
Both are a means of venting frustration, but only one of them is self harm. Crying is generally thought of as healthy as long as it doesn't become your go to solution for every tiny problem. Which brings me to control. Both need to be controlled, but self harm can never be good for you and that's why crying will always be a better option.
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Well both are giving in to an emotional response...
Just one is aggressive and the other isn't. Although Punching a wall has consquences such as damaging your hand and/or causing destruction to the wall itself. While crying is simply a more graceful way to express how you are feeling
I guess you are right, crying is more controlled as it does not result in direct undesirable consquences
Hmm.. I might have to think about this one..
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Shoo.. Punching a wall is outta control.. LOL..
If you burst out in tears then you're not in control at all. Similarly if you burst out in anger and punch a wall you're not in control either.
Both crying and punching shit are forms of release, and both can be done in a controlled environment. If something makes you a mad you can still be professional about it and wait until you get home and cry about it or you can wait until you get to the gym and get some work done on a punching bag.
I don't know both are getting out suppressed feelings
I think both are losing control, but punching a wall is worse.
I've never punched a wall, not trying to find a new house tbh.
Anger is as much of a natural emotion as sadness is.
Don't break your knuckles or hurt your hand by punching the wall. And don't break the wall. Crying is a better way to cope. Also exercising and running can help to.
Crying. I much rather cry. Never do anything out of anger, most the time when you do it's something stupid or has some sort of consequence later on.
Neither.
Both show one's inability to control their feelings and allowing their emotions to dictate their actions.
never punch a wall in anger. i done it before and got my finger fractured very badly. and i suffered from lots of pain because of it. my finger got fractured really badly.
They both work as coping methods. However I think crying is better
Why not both?
Punch a wall, then cry from the pain
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Maybe crying while punching the wall which helps release pain in both way
Neither are in control, but violence is more out of control.
Putting my foot up someone's ass is me being *totally in control* 😂
Have a nice day! ugh i accidently clicked on the wrong answer i meant to pick the last one damn it
neither..
controlling is manning up and moving on or handling the situation
Neither. You're losing control in both situations.
I have a punching bag I would punch that
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