Polls: Guy's Behavior

Quiet love-- does small things to show she cares, is there whenever you need her, lets you have your freedom but trusts you not to abuse it, prefers quality time over quantity, treats the relationship like its sacred, not something to brag about to discuss with other people, may not do a lot of pda but showers you with affection when you are alone, etc.

Loud love- posts about it, professes her love to you vocally more than once, may be needy, clingy, and possessive, loves to vocalize how you are her man, "touchy-feely" whenever you are somewhere, some can be territorial, loves pda, more public about the relationship, showers you with affection in public and alone, but more so in public, etc.

Note everyone will fill every part of 'quiet' or 'loud' love-- this is just my interpretation of it. Personally, I fit into and usually show quiet love. From my experience (NOT saying this is always the case, just based on my personal experiences with guys), this works the best for men that are older and secure (work their own job, emotionally stable) and less so when the guy is my age and insecure or less emotionally stable. The last time I dealt with the latter, he claimed I didn't love him and questioned my feelings for him. He would try to 'test' me by flirting with other girls to make me jealous, but when I wouldn't react, would lash out at me. It wasn't until he broke up with me and some time passed (he dated another girl) that he realized all the things I did that proved my feelings for him and he wanted me back.

Most of my guy friends have voiced they prefer a girl that shows loud love because it shows she is proud to be with him and because they feel loved and cared for. I want to know what other guys think? Do you prefer quiet or loud love from a girl?

Okay so a lot of people on here have different preferences when it comes to girls. I'm just wondering which of these options you think is prettier and what you think of each one? (too skinny, actually ugly, whatever) because I would be interested in seeing what guys ACTUALLY prefer. Although girls are welcome to vote too :)

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I feel like it's a better picture of the second girl than it is of the first, but tell me what you think!!

I used to have such small boobs. After I had my kid they have not been small since. Now men seem to stare. Before I had my kid I wanted bigger boobs because I felt ugly, and not good enough. Now I am tired of being stared at. Going from a B to a D has not made life any better. I actually have more back pain, more breast pain. My nipples are big. They do not look as good to me. I am Bisexual. Woman are very beautiful. I do not care about breasts though. I personally find more interest in how someone's face looks. It just seems ridiculous that men are obsessed with boobs. They are just muscle, an fat. Mostly for breast feeding. Sure they can be used for sexual pleasure. Even if I wear a shirt that does not show cleavage it I hard to avoid. Men why are you so obsessed with woman's boobs?

I am a distance runner and I have pretty strong calf muscles. My legs are thin, but when I wear heels or flex, my muscles look sort of large.

What do guys generally think of this? Not really self-conscious, just curious...

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Okay so I weigh much more than my boyfriend and I feel extremely self conscious about it. Like I weigh 125 and he LOOKS like he weighs 100 pounds. I mean he likes me a lot and a lot of that weight is from my butt, but he always tells me how he loves my butt. So he always seems like he doesn't care about it, but I don't know does he? Should I worry about this?

i always been self conscious about m body every since i was like 13 or 14 i picked up weight a lot of weight when i came to high school my family is a very small petite family then you have me a curvy full figured girl i had very low self esteem about my weight until i lost my v card and thought well this guy like it so more probably do and after i used to get hi on a lot saying your a big pretty girl etc and i mean it did boost my self esteem but i still hate being called bi but i did learn to embrace who i am but do men like curvy women if not why?
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This EXACTLY my size

Guys, do you actually like and prefer to cuddle, or you'd prefer to keep your distance with a girl while you sleep?

Do you guys only put up with cuddling all night with the girl you like, or you'll cuddle with any girl?

Me and his best friend are dating for a while without telling my brother. We are in a official relationship but still didn't tell him anything, last week i found out about my pregnancy and i decided to tell my brother about me and his friend. I was happy and hoping that he would support me but he get really mad and he push me away, next day he get into a huge fight with my boyfriend because of nothing ! Although my boyfriend told my brother how sorry he is for keeping it from him but he really love me so my brother get mad more and more. And he tried to hit me too so my boyfriend get mad and he break my brother's wrist accidently but he take him to the hospital and he wanted to talk with him but again my brother was so rude to my boyfriend. I stayed with him that night and he ask me to move in because I need someone to look after me and my brother still treat me like shit because I'm pregnant.
P. S I'm 18 and my boyfriend and my brother are 25 I'm his little and only sister.

All guys have their preferences but I want to know if there is a trend that leans one way or another. The question is simple; do you prefer your woman to have larger breasts or smaller breasts?

I'm noticing a trend these days in the dating world, more guys want to be courted. Men want women to approach them & ask them out on dates, and once on the date they go dutch or expect the woman to pay. I've even seen the most extreme: Women Proposing To Men? There are even men looking for a woman to take care of them, like his mom did. LOL, is this the new trend? Have you too noticed a switch in gender roles?

Do you agree with what the people on this thread are saying? Or not?

Why?

Go anon if you have too.

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This guy that I know ( were not really good friends we are just acquaintances becoming friends I guess) and he has driven me home twice now from our leadership class. The first time he did he asked if I had eaten. I said "no", and he offered to buy me something to eat. "I said no, no its okay" but he insisted and told me I could get whatever I wanted. Him and his younger sister got something as well which overall makes it seem like nothing.

The second time he picked me up to take me to leadership class he did the same thing.. but this time he asked me if I ate and when I said no he bought me something again.. of course I said he didn't need to do it but his sister interjected and said he just got paid its okay! Him and his sister didn't get anything though he only got me something to eat. he went out of his way to get me something to eat even though we were late to our class.
after class on the way home It was sort of quiet and he asked if I was okay like twice even though I said I was all right. Then he asked if I finished the food he bought me in a very serious tone. I don't know maybe I'm over thinking it. Men what is your reasoning behind doing this? I hope he's not interested because Im not i want to make sure I dont lead him on. Though it is a sweet gesture.

ps. When we first met he bombarded me with a whole bunch of questions I guess to get to know me and then randomly asked if I had a boyfriend. :S

This question is only for guys. My husband is very attracted to me and we have an amazing sex life. He is extremely handsome. I want to be as attractive as possible for him. Even though he fell in love with me when I was 70 pounds over weight and has never ever been critical or had trouble performing, I still want to be thin like I used to be so I can wear sexy lingerie. He has never seen me thin, although I was thin and fit for most of my life. I want him to know the real me. I am planning to have my extra skin removed and have a full body lift. He said he loves me with sagging skin and not to worry about it, but when i told him I needed to have the body lift to feel good about myself he became very supportive. I am in my mid forties. My face skin looks young. My husband says not to bother with getting my breasts lifted because he is worried I will lose sensation. He says he likes them the way they are... But I am so white I am transparent and I can see my blue veins through my breast skin and my breasts sag from nursing my babies. I am wondering if men can really be attracted to breasts that are droopy and have visible blue veins? Is he just being kind and loving? Or are men in their late fifties and older attracted to realistic non perky breasts? How can a woman dress to look as attractive as possible with somewhat saggy D cup breasts?

Who do you prefer?

Ryan Gosling..
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Or, Zac Efron..
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I'm thinking of getting a roller skate. My friend told me not to because guys will be catcalling me? Why did he say this? Is it something sexy?

I'm still gonna buy one anyway.