He held my hand. What does this mean?

[Anonymous]

My crush grabbed my hand and inner locked our fingers together. We were sitting. People saw that we were holding hands. He held it for a couple of minutes. Does it mean he likes me? PS he's a flirt

He likes you

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[Consultant]

Love this site, reminds me of all the little things that got me excited when I was under 18. Good times, good memories.

[Asker]

Do you think he likes me? Also he is a flirt

[Consultant]

Yes He does

[DarkHumorRUs]

Please give me a good reason that the answer to this isn't FUCKING OBVIOUS.

[Anonymous]

I've seen men do that just to make girls think they like them...

[Asker]

So do you think he doesn't like me? We are in high school

[Klaatu51]

that he lkes you of couse

[Asker]

He's a flirt though. Do you still think he likes me even though he's a flirt?

[been_waiting]

He likes you.

[Asker]

He's a flirt tho? Does that matter?

[been_waiting]

Yeah, some guys, especially at this age, flirt with everyone. doesn't mean he's interested

[Asker]

Do you think he likes me? Or could he be doing that with everyone?

[been_waiting]

It could be either. You should flirt back if you like him

[Asker]

Then my friend told him I liked him. And he said that we are family friends. What does that even mean? We are not family friends

[been_waiting]

Oh dang I don't know. Sounds like he isn't interested

[Asker]

But why would he hold my hand and ask me on a date, stare at me, etc. before he knew I liked him?

[been_waiting]

Ohh he asked you on a date?
what did you say?

[Asker]

I said yeah. He has asked me before and I agreed. But it's not official or anything. He asked me while he was holding my hand and then he's like "were a couple now." I'm so confused. Then later on that exact day that's when my friend told him. I don't know what to think. He's confusing

[been_waiting]

Lol I knew a guy when I was a sophomore in high school who did the exact same thing to a friend. He was a player.
You should ask him to be straight up.

[Asker]

I would consider my crush a player too. I also don't think he knows how he feels. He hasn't had a lot of gf's. I only know of one. Plus he is also newer to our school. I think if he was a player he would have dated tons of people by now. Do you think he likes me? I feel like people don't hold hands with people they don't like, right?

[been_waiting]

He at the very least finds you attractive but he could just like flirting or maybe he has worse motives (sex.) this is why you should ask him what he wants

[Asker]

A couple months ago I asked him if he likes me. He replied with "we love each other" probably because he didn't know how to respond with

[been_waiting]

I would ask him what he really wants or if he sees you two dating for real. Do you two text

[Asker]

That day when I asked him if he liked me, a couple minutes before I asked him that he was saying "you tryna hang out" he was also giving me his phone number telling me to write it down. I never did because I was scared. I didn't know if he was really asking me to hang out or not. He is my very first major crush. I was scared. I feel like I messed up. That's why I told my friend to tell him I like him. No I don't have his number and no we never hung out

[been_waiting]

Awww its okay lol you can fix this. Just ask for his number. He may not think you like him, but you can fix that easily.

[Asker]

He knows I like him tho. I'm scared

[been_waiting]

Don't be. You have to take chances. If you don't take a chance you'll regret it. Promise!

[Asker]

I feel like the ball is in his court now since he knows I like him. He can do whatever he wants with that information

[been_waiting]

Maybe he's thinking the same thing!

[Asker]

I'm on spring break rn. So maybe he will do something once we get back. I really hope he asks me to prom

[been_waiting]

You can always ask him :)

[Asker]

True

[JackKerouac77]

Time to get married