Polls: Guy's Behavior

Someone in high school told me that I get rejected a lot because of how I dress and that I’m quiet. They also told me that people wouldn’t want to sit next to me because of how I would dress and that I should wear more color and wear feminine tops. Would guys more likely reject me because I would dress like this?

Is it because I'm not physically attractive enough for men my age?

Why would he do that and act nervous/shy afterwards. It seems like he’s a little bit scared of me or maybe I intimidate him with my confidence?

I made a joke about having sexy thoughts about him and looked at his crotch a bit, and he just looked down, went red and laughed, he seemed a bit intimidated.

I wasn’t trying to make him uncomfortable or be too forward.

He’s in his 40’s and recently divorced.

I had a fling with someone two years ago. He was quiet afterwards and it felt so uncomfortable I had to ask him why.. he said the sex we had was the best he’s ever had. I just took it as he was just saying things to say it. He soon after started professing how he feels..”I want a relationship, I could really see us settling down” etc. I pretty much sabotaged it on purpose because I wasn’t looking for anything serious. He was mad that I was seeing other men. (Back then) -/ fast forward to now, I messaged him to ask if he wanted to have sex? He said yes, so we exchanged numbers and set up a time and day. The day comes and he’s slow to respond to me, he’s not a responsive as he’s been over the course of us reconnecting.. I made plans with someone else. The next day he asks what I did the day before and I told him “I went to go see someone” and it pissed him off to the point where all we did was argue. by the way -/ he’s in a relationship with his baby’s mother (new born) and they live together, I am single. so we’ve argued for like 3 weeks until he finally agreed to see me last Tuesday and we had sex at his job. He’s extremely dry with me after so it started to irritate me to the point I told him “you’re only making me not like you and I can’t wait until I do” so I sent him our Se’x tapes and told him if that’s how I have to remember him, it’s how he gotta remember me (called him names) and he said “you’re way too much for me💯 it’s not attractive” — what I’m confused on is why is trying to impose how he feel and what he wants on me, when all I ever wanted was to have sex? Like the first time we’ve met. That’s all, I didn’t have no attraction to him outside of intercourse. Why is he behaving the way he is when I just started caring more (I didn’t care at first) and now we said some things to eachother that’s hurtful and we both blocked eachother. Like what is the reason for all of this? Am I wrong?

So, I’m trying to figure out if my physio likes me before I find a new physio and ask him out.

When I met him the other day, he called me by my full name which was really weird. I called him out on it, and then he called me by the multiple nicknames that can come from my name in a teasing way. For example, imagine my full name is Samantha, and my nicknames could be Sam, Sammy, etc.

Then, he was randomly showing me his hair and playing with it, and said that he thought the grey hairs were very “distinguished”.

He also gave me a huge, beaming smile, and winked at me in a friendly way during our conversation.

I think he probably knows I’m crushing on him, so I’m trying to figure out if he’s just being nice/friendly, or if he actually likes me.

What do you think?

Thank you!

How can you tell the difference between when it embarrasses a man vs he likes it and goes red because he’s turned on etc. ?

Yesterday i invited a guy I have a crush on to come over today and watch a series with me that we started last week. We kissed last week but decided to not proceed as we both want different things.
Yesterday he said he’s down to watching the show together and sounded kinda enthusiastic.

Today he texts me saying “sorry I’m not feeling well so I’ll stay in”
And when I said hope you feel better he said thanks and sorry again.

I’m wondering if this is an excuse to get out of hanging out with me or if he’s genuinely sick. Guys, do you think it’s a lie?

Do you prefer girls who are more modest in their dress style or not?

I'm back with another non-important question.😁

I was at an all girls party recently and one of them started crying about something which made others tear up too. I am not a crier, and I just kind of sat there looking out of place. In that moment, I thought to myself that I could never picture guys doing this. Lol. So I got to ask, does this ever happen with the guys?

I understand they don't like their gfs nagging about wanting kids, being scared of being baby-trapped and feeling pressured into it. Ok let's say we were to play dumb, never baby-trap you and never mention anything about wanting kids, would men naturally want kids too? Would they be capable of bringing up the topic themselves if the woman doesn't even remind them? Do they naturally (free will) want kids or not?

Here is the irony, they don't like being nagged but if some of them were to be suffering infertility (unable to ever impregnant a woman), several wouldn't like that either. One of my good friends is a fertility nurse. Several years ago, one of her patients was a married couple that's been trying to conceive for 3 years. It was discovered (teste 3 times) the guy had no sperm count and he actually left the office in tears.

I realise that it’s more likely a guy will pay if he just fancies her but on top of this are men more likely to pay if a woman looks the part and plays the part? I’m not just talking about appearance I’m also talking about behaviour too, what do you think.. Kind of like maybe you’d be more inclined to like after her maybe, what’s your opinion?