Do you think he's trying to make me feel bad/control me?

[Anonymous]

Last summer my "boyfriend" made a joke about my weight. He apologized and claimed he loves and accepts me. This summer, a few days ago, he made a comment about how I'm eating on webcam. Then today I said I wanted to order wings and pizza or burgers and he suggests that I order a chicken salad. So I'm convinced he doesn't want me as a girlfriend and gets upset when I suggest that we break up. Or maybe he wants me to break up with him.

Yes, he's trying to make you feel bad about your weight

No, you're overthinking

It's something else and I'll explain when

[spartan55]

Why are you 'suggesting' that you break up? Is there some reason you won't just do it?

[Asker]

I already did b

[spartan55]

That's great! Maybe add an update.

[Avicenna]

Sounds like he lacks discretion

[Nikki1989]

He obviously thinks he can control you. Don't put up with it.

[Malwi93]

he probably doesn't like your weight

[Asker]

But why when I ask him he says he's ok with it? I suggested we break up so that he can find someone smaller, again he doesn't want to break up. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Malwi93]

so probably everythings OK

[Anonymous]

Nope he isn’t