Polls: Guy's Behavior

He said yes they are neat.
They are a B cup. Then said they suit you if they were bigger wouldn’t look like you and he liked my nipple and said a few times he likes there neat (he’s said that before often)

I thought this was a good idea bc that way he doesn’t have to show up if it’s a bad tone dnd since I’m always in the sane spot sane tine after swimming it seemed simple.

but now im really uncomfortable bc I’ll never know if he’s going to show up and what if he thinks I meant every day that I swim and what if the 1 day he chooses I will not be there last minute emergency or I’ll be tired. I don’t want to limit my work out bc I don’t want to be tired later.

I think this was a terrible idea 🤦🏻‍♀️ but I feel funny switching it after the fact. Wouk’s you be bothered if I switched things to a more specific plan, after we agreed to a flexible plan? Obviously he can say no so it shouldn’t be a finer deal but I still am uncomfortable. Do I ask him if he wants to make a plan or do I suggest it?

Here is my first post

I got a lot of different replies so i did a poll.

Basically he is everything I've ever wanted but he's very close to his best friend. She has an amazing body angelic face and great personality. She makes me insecure.

1. Before we started going out she basically lived with him. They both have there own penthouses but she would cuddle with him in bed while wearing his shirt every night (They stopped this after we stated going out)

2. He greets her by calling her Babygirl, Kitten, Princess while back hugging her. He gives her piggyback rides and randomly picks her up sometimes.

3. When he is drunk she is usually all he talks about or he call/text her

4. When he goes back home to visit his parents she comes along. She is basically a part of his family

5. He has her period schedule on his calendar. He says he keeps track for her because she always forgets to write it on her calendar. He also does it so he can prepare snacks and ice cream, movies to watch, and music to listen to. He makes sure she has pads and tampons and if she has run out he will buy some for her. He is really organized and she is kind of go with the flow and doesn’t prepare for things, so he does it for her. He sometimes even builds a blanket fort for them to watch movies. He does all of this to distract her from the pain. When it’s really bad he plays with her hair and sings her to sleep. He also buys her “period prizes”. Apparently her mother used to buy her gifts when she wasn’t feeling good, so he took over and started buying her a present whenever she doesn’t feel good.)

6. I walked in on him moaning and her straddling his bare back as she massaged him in his bed. (She saw me and offered to do me next)

7. He has also canceled some of our dates when she wasn’t feeling well or was upset. She never asks him to do anything for her but he always runs. And he will do literally anything to put a smile on her face when she is upset, no matter how stupid it makes him look.

Literally have all these negative bitter guys saying women can’t get a man in their 30s/40s because women are expired by then 😂. Not even going to get into how delusional that is. But let us say so many of you guys hairlines are almost completely gone or many of y’all are bald by 25 and it’s Unattractive there is a problem. These same guys cry. What’s up with the huge hypocrisy?

He wrote in black-

I wrote in blue -

We already fucked and something like friends with benefits who don’t mind hanging out and drinking together.

are they attractive on women? would they look good on my belly? I wear a lot of bikinis , so probably my belly is going to be exposed for the most part.

What is the meaning behind that?

• Is that being a friendly and platonic genuine gesture?
• Would you say that to just any woman you know or to a female friend
• or because you are attracted to them and want to get to know them more or because you wanna be more than a shoulder to cry on for her?