Women don’t really deserve them nor do they even want one.
I’m a good guy and I’ve been always been single. It’s almost like girls don’t care I exist.
Sure it’s hard to meet new people. I also have no bad physical or personality characteristics that are obvious upon meeting me. I look good.
s claiming that you are a good guy does NOT make a good guy. you sound like one of those bitter dudes that blame all of their issues on women and then call themselves a “good guy”. most girls absolutely LOVE and truly appreciate the GENUINELY good guys out there. there’s even a few on here that I could tag and many many many girls on this site would without a doubt agree with me. you know why? because their actions speak louder than their words. they don’t go around claiming to be good guys and then make the most bitter and hateful comments about women. because that my guy, is NOT what any good person would say.
so, no, it is not women’s fault that your can’t get your shit together. it is not women’a fault that you are undesirable, however by the way you speak, I certainly am not shocked that you are single.
Uhhhh, what? Why do I not deserve a nice guy? Thankfully, I have one that I am happily engaged to. He is the nicest guy I have ever met. He is a true gentleman and has always acted as such, even to this day.
To say girls don't want nice guys is quite ridiculous. What do we want then? Please, enlighten me. That is all I have ever wanted, and I am fortunate enough to have met one.
He does all sorts of little things to make me feel like I am the only thing that matters to him. In return, I do the same for him. Like any relationship, it is a give and take.
I am really curious as to why you think girls don't want nice guys. Maybe you can update the question using the update box and provide some more detail as to why you believe that nonsense.
I get the vibe that you are having issues dating so you want to blame women. Typical blue anon behaviour.
I agree they shouldn´t date but for different reasons than you might think. They shouldn´t date to figure WHY they are nice. Are you nice so to get your way? Are you because you want people to see or acknowledge you? Or are you nice because you genuinely like to help people and you´re happy if people get helped.
I see both types describing themselves as a "nice" guy. The problem is that "nice" guys can fall into traps either they are egoistic in their heart and use being nice to get their way OR they are too nice in terms of having no backbone and do everything so that people get helped while their own needs get neglected.
Therefore as long as a "nice" guy doesn´t know how to avoid either trap he shouldn´t date.
Personally I think men should stop pursuing women period. Most of them don’t like us, and it isn’t like some woman can look at you and “see” that you’re a nice guy. You’re just another dude. Hell, half the time women say they didn’t even think their partner was that attractive until they got to know them, and now they think they are gorgeous.
So basically it really doesn’t matter. You could be Mr. fucking Rogers but they are going to drop their panties for Jason Momoa and go chat him up. Which one do you think is going to be more likely to sleep alone?
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They already don't date and can't find anyone anyway because their personalities (submissiveness) are a giant turn-off to women, so it's a self-healing problem. You want to get women? Be an asshole. Works 100% of the time. *I* choose not to be though, cause women aren't worth changing who I am in order to win over.
(INB4 some snarky female says "But you're already an asshole and still can't find someone!" No, I'm really not.)
u If you don't want to date, that's your decision. WHy do you need to ask other people? Is there a different question, or are we supposed to convince you that you should date? Doesn't really matter to anyone else.
Nice guys don't call themselves nice guys, toxic incels do when they don't realize how toxic they are.
Also, good hint of that is saying women don't deserve a nice guy. Meaning we deserve assholes.
Nice guys suck is what my girlfriends say..."I already have a Golden Retriever, where's my Lion?
Nice guys can be with whoever they want that they can win the attention of. You don’t get to decide who deserves what.
Maybe you either need to be more confident or less thirsty
Nice guys don't call themselves nice guys... Im dating a nice guy, he's never once labeled himself as a nice guy
Most guys that call themselves “nice guys” aren’t even actually really that “nice” .
That’s crazy- if you wantvzo date, date and find someone who appreciates you
You sound more like a "nice guy" than just some guy who is also nice
"nice guys" is code for "I'm a simp and a passive-aggressive jerk"
Try being a little more assertive. Tell a girl you want her
Yeah but that means girls who want bad guys shouldn't date either.
You just didn't find a girl who appreciate you
But im sure you will find someone who love you just the way you are
You sound like an incel
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That's very stupid.
