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i love them, as long as they’re good surprises!! i got an amazing surprise today!!!

I borrowed my friend 400 dollars and he loan it out to his cousin who was supposed to pay him back this month. Now he is finding excuses not to do it cause he has a drug dealer after him. Am I supposed to care about that?

My friend tells me he will try to talk to him like he hasen't done that before. His cousin evan reasigned jobs just to run away from him..(they work together) am I supposed to give a damn that he is in danger? I don't...

I told my friend to beat him up cause he is a lot bigger than him but he said that won't help anything.. so I offered to go to the store take his phone myself and put it in my bra because if he touches me its sexual assualt. Then we can sell the phone. (Which my friend gave him).

Am I in the wrong?

In most places in EU it is quote normal to go for a walk alone at night, or do whatever you like whenever you like and you feel rather safe doing it (amongst many other things).

Also you can look people in the eyes and no one is going to attack you for it.

No one follows you in stores and watches if you'll steal something.

Rarely (or ever in my case) anyone ever approaches you in an insanely inappropriate way.

All of these are the opposite in the US it seems.

Are you aware people do not see the US as a beautiful utopia but rather the opposite?

*I won't touch on the guns issue, that is self-evident.

the musical is the wedding singer and we play the bride and groom. The director suggested we kiss but was optional. We are both teenagers so it’s awkward and we act nervous but smile. I want to stage kiss with him to relieve tension and make the scene more believable.
I also want us to get comfortable with one another, but he has a girlfriend who’s in the show. I want to ask his permission if we could kiss but I’m afraid he won’t cause he has a “gf”. It makes me frustrated cause it’s just acting. I want him to be comfortable with the idea though. How should I approach this? Is this okay? I feel like this will make things more comfortable and more believable. I would really like to kiss him if he’s okay with it. Is it worth asking?

So my boyfriend saw a group photo and found my colleague looking better than me and he asked me her name and later on when I said that a colleague of mine is resigning so he asked me if it’s the same girl and also he asked me where is she going or joining and how is she doing and I feel that my boyfriend has a crush on her. Does this mean I should break up with my boyfriend? I asked him why he wanna know about her he said just like that - is my boyfriend toxic? Does this indicate that in future he is likely to cheat on me with someone better? Now we both have shared with each other our Instagram password and Recently from my Instagram, he opened her chat which u had unopened since past 3-4 days. It means he is checking her Instagram out for seeing her photos etc. So I’m really annoyed now. Does this indicate that my boyfriend does not really love me?

technically mine was when i was 10. my guy bff for years turned out to have a big crush on me so we tried dating for like a month even tho i didn't like him like that at all lol. ended up going back to just being best friends cos i felt uncomfortable and our friends would tease us about it. i know he still liked me like that for like 2 years, but we never dated again

I dont gym anymore but when I did. I lift way less than must women on here. I see they say they squat 300 pounds... I do less than 1/3rd of that.. actually less than 1/4th of that.. and dont get me started on bicep..

Am I weirdly weak or these women lying lol?

Our dog is a mutt/ pitbull mix looks like the picture his name is dodge he's a year and a half. We rescued him from a shelter after being returned for being "too destructive" we've had to make many changes to how we secure the house before we leave so he doesn't destroy things. My boyfriend Steven trains him (he's a first time dog owner) he teaches him basic commands and a bit more but this dog has attacked 2 dogs, wants to kill my pet kitten. Sometimes mistakes small children for animals, I want the mutt gone. People shouldn't be afraid of him, he just has that energy. My boyfriend doesn't want to rid of this dog at all he's extremely attached like he birthed dodge himself. He makes so many excuses the dog can chew off my arm and he'll probably reward him. He spends x amount of money on toys yet can save 250 to buy lessons. We have him on 400mg of trazadone and he's still psycho. Wwyd? My boyfriend is stubborn and will absolutely not let this dog go, I just want to be able to walk around my neighborhood without tearing for others dogs and possibly children.

Why are people so mad about Americans "taking handouts" from the government especially when that person is in need? Welfare, ssi, etc is closely associated with black people even though they're not the largest demographic to utilize it. Is that why it is demonized? Some may argue that it's their tax money, we all pay taxes literally! How does someone using assistance affect you personally? How does an American receiving help hurt you?

He randomly broke up with me out of no where but begged to keep sleeping together.

I only found out recently that he has this friendship. When we split he kept saying I’ll eventually sleep with someone else. I think I could get anyone I want. He said not better than you but the same

Then after a month of doing that he came back asking for a relationship again. A week later said nah I just wanna keep sleeping together.

Was he telling the truth he just didn’t like this relationship or was it for that friendship?