To me if he’s taking care of the major bills then it’s best you at least purchase some of the things, it’s only fair. Either we’re equal or we’re not. I assume you two have separate accounts? You both need to sit down to really talk about this. Financially this could be the reason why the two of you separate, usually is for most couples. When you say xyz, what are we talking about. I’m sure it’s no where near what he spends on bills. This tends to be the issue w women. Women wants a man’s money to be our money but their money is their money. Men are usually willing to share resources, women aren’t. If you really care about him you both need to really look at yourself, admit what your mistakes are financially as far as your spending habits. Differentiate between need or want. Sure it may suck for 2-5 years going w out this or that which isn’t a necessity, but it’s better than living the life you’re living for the rest of your life. Trust me even if you two got a $10,000 annual raise, you’re still going to be broke. People who make more tend to make bigger purchases, spend more. I’d suggest maybe listening to Richard Kiyosaki or Dave Ramsey. There’s a lot you can do to change your situation. Figure out your bills, debt, extra income if you have some.
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My wife always pays for the food in this way. That is the agreement we have.
Arogant and judgmental cashiers show poor quality service in trying to guess how your finances work.
Try a different supermarket. You and he should not have to deal with such poor service.
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Y'all need to be worried about money management habits long before worrying about how you look to mfs at a register, 'cause they aren't the pinnacle of good life choices to be concerning yourselves with period.
Well if he pays all the bills, I think it’s more than reasonable you cover most of the shopping
I said stupid but I have a stupid question. What is "hydes"
I'm thinking he is just using you.
Cut off the cash and he is gone.He pays rent and the bills. You pay for groceries. Seems fair.
If he makes more than you he should pay for stuff. Truck drivers make good money too.
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