Is it normal for guys to look at other pictures of females?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

I'm pretty sure it's normal. It is for me.

Women have been a popular subject matter in painting and sculpture for ages. There are many salacious paintings of goddesses, nymphs, slave girls and courtesans.

During WWII, there were pin up girls. Before porn videos there were girly magazines like Playboy. Most of my friends' dads had collections of those.

Men have always been fascinated by beautiful women. It's in our DNA.

I appreciate sexy female characters on film. There are male actors that my wife find sexy.

I sometimes watch porn.

I have a folder with sub-folders with photos of women and women's bodies, including classic art, in my laptop. It's fun to seek out ideal examples and save them in those folders. I don't jerk off to photos. I just appreciate them as I would art.

I admire beautiful women I see in public. My wife knows that I love the female form and sometimes points out particularly noticeable examples, such a woman with a great ass or nice boobs on display.

We have been walking along the boardwalk at the beach and seen beautiful women in tiny bikinis rollerskating. We'll glance at each other, wide eyed, as she approaches, then turn to watch her behind sashay as she skates away.

We were on a ferry in San Francisco once when a sail boat passed very near. Two girls lifted their tops and flashed our boat. My wife nudged me and pointed so that I wouldn't miss it.

A while back, we went to a frozen yogurt shop near a lake. Four young people were in line. A girl who looked in her late teens was wearing a beach cover that only covered the top of her ass crack. She must have been wearing a thong because her big, round, white ass was completely naked. My wife and I looked at each other. Then I reached out and made a gesture as if I was grabbing a handful of that smooth, plump, plentiful ass. No one else saw me. My wife and I chuckled silently.

My wife isn't jealous. She knows that I adore her. She has all the features of femininity and is the only woman I want.

I think of women as art. I can appreciate them without owning them. I think it's absurd to think that I can appreciate things like landscapes, flowers, sunsets, cute baby animals, and beautiful art, but not notice beautiful women.

And sometimes the sights inspire playfulness later between my wife and I. She knows what I like and she likes me, too.

PavlovsCogk · Accepted Answer

If men printed out the pictures of the other females and hung them on the walls, nothing would change.  ﾠ  ﾠ  ﾠ  ﾠ  ﾠ

Cute_Miss_Laura · Accepted Answer

While I believe that in an idealized world, your boyfriend or husband should "only have eyes for you”, in reality, however, guys are gonna look at other women, including pictures of women online. In my opinion, if he's just casually, looking at different girls, then it's no big deal. If he has subbed to a bunch of Instagram, hoes, and is constantly commenting on their posts, or he’s actually paying a Net-Whore on OnlyFans… That's out of line, and if I discovered my boyfriend was doing that I'd have to have a long talk with him about what is, and what is not appropriate. I actually, don't mind if my boyfriend watches porn, after all I read romance novels and that's just mental porn for women. Men and women are just different. That doesn't mean one is better than the other. It just means we're different. Men tend to be more visually stimulated than we do. that does NOT mean that women are not physically attracted to good looking men… Geez 🙄. It simply means that men TEND to be more visually stimulated than women. There are always exceptions, guys. Not everyone Is the same!

Laura.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

Somewhat. If he is following tons of IG hoes or liking lots of girls pictures on other social media, I wouldn't trust a guy like that personally. But if it is just looking at random girls on his feed it's not that big a deal.

piano · Answer

Absolutely, it’s totally normal for guys to look at pictures of women. People are visual by nature, and we’re often drawn to images for various reasons. Sometimes it's about admiring beauty, appreciating fashion, or just plain curiosity. We’re surrounded by images on social media, ads, TV shows, and movies, so it’s almost unavoidable. It’s one thing to appreciate someone’s looks or style in a respectful way, but it’s another to objectify or disrespect someone.

This is where communication comes in: Talking openly with your partner about what’s okay and what isn’t can make a big difference.

So, yes, looking at pictures of others is normal, but being mindful and respectful about it, especially when you’re in a relationship, is crucial.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

Yes. It is. As a rule I’ve noticed a pattern too. Those female who firmly declare that no man who’s in a committed relationship should ever look at another woman tend to be equally insecure and/or uncomfortable in their own physical appearance.

I’ve had the pleasure of knowing some very pretty girls and marrying one. They tend to find feminine beauty just as fascinating as any man I know.

Women are beautiful and it’s a multi-billion dollar industry to help women elevate their beauty. To pretend that magically becomes irrelevant the moment you find somebody you love makes no logical sense.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes of course. Out of all the billions of women on the face of this earth you think he’s not going to look at other women? Sure a man’s heart may belong to you, he may never cheat. But is he going to look at other women? Of course. I understand women want to be the center of his world, that he doesn’t have eyes for other women but I highly doubt that’s going to happen. It’s like send a kid into a candy store, after years of waiting, then telling him he can only have one piece. I love my girl, we’ve been together for 15 years but I still like looking at Salma Hayek, Eva Mendez, Kat Dennings, , etc, etc. I think both men as well as women do it. Women are just better at hiding it along w a lot of other things they claim they don’t do.

AviatorTom · Answer

It's very normal. Years before the Internet and electronic pictures, guys would have pinup posters in their rooms and offices. Military guys overseas especially did this, including painting them on the nose of their airplane.

Gochogirl · Answer

Very normal. My boyfriend has to for his job because he works in entertainment so why should it bother me? I look at photos of whoever I want anyway.

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

Yes. They are just pictures. Does he spend time with any other romantic interest. If not, overlook it. There are far worse things he could do to violate your trust in him.

As long as porn doesn’t prevent him from being intimate with you and it keeps him at home and true to you, overlook it.

Consider it a compliment. He is with you. Not out trying to be with whom is portrayed in those pictures or videos.

Nifrayu · Answer

Do you mean pictures of other females?

Either way yes. Just as it's normal for guys to look at pictures of other males, gals looking at pictures of other males, gals looking at pictures of other females and any combination that I may have missed. It's all normal.

DishLady · Answer

Yes... some more than others. It's important to understand the intent isn't necessarily terrible. They're wired a little differently than we are when it comes to the "eye candy" factor.

Asb_Samson · Answer

Yes it's normal being a one of from human being. Don't spy like investigation officer. Build your trust which will make your relationship stronger.

sage2021 · Answer

Not if you have a girlfriend and you made a commitment to her. But yes it is perfectly normal. Just don't do it so much that it becomes an addiction ok?

jennifer_bloom · Answer

99% of guys consider attainability and not just desirability when deciding which woman to chase, even serial killers consider attainability and not purely desirability.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Yes it’s fairly normal, obviously there are caveats to it, 24/7 viewing, making lots of comments, masturbating to them in living room, when it becomes a bit too much.

NoIdeaMinAmour · Answer

I don't think it is normal if that man is dating you. Mainly if it is a girl wearing sexy clothes. It would make me feel insecure and feeling I'm not good enough.

RingOfFire · Answer

Of course. Guys are designed that way by nature. It is in their DNA. It is the reason we are here today because without that instinct in men there would be no procreation.

Anonymous · Answer

Happy people don't stray. They don't even think about it aside processing passing strangers in person. People who have or seek pictures is a next level.

Apple1996 · Answer

Not if he's in a relationship. A man should only have eyes for his girlfriend/wife

LiamJHayden · Answer

It is normal for a straight male to notice girls he finds attractive. If he is seeking them out while in a relationship, that to me is disrespectful.

fonduegirl · Answer

Depends on the pictures. Women are people too. Unless naked, I wouldn't worry

DrPepper12 · Answer

Yes. And women to look at men too! Let him look at the catalog all he wants as long as he doesn't order!!

Jkgordon · Answer

Yes I would question if you check out guys all the time

handsomelad70 · Answer

Of course. To paraphrase Brad Paisley,"He's Still A Guy !!!"

he-takes-a-part · Answer

Why? Was it not normal for you to attach an image of a guy in this post for which you went searching about.

Twalli · Answer

Guys aren't blind, we can still see girls and some are attractive. We like seeing attractive girls, even if we are in a relationship.

idkwhoyouare · Answer

I have a girlfriend, and she looks at guys More than I look at girls, so I might sneak a tiny glance and then look away immediately, or read a print on a shirt cuz i'm curious.

Anonymous · Answer

to look at briefly? yes to be infatuated with? no

noohair · Answer

It is the caveman part of the brain. It is very hard to control.

thisAppIsGarbage · Answer

I look at pictures of other girls while inside less attractive girls

AnnonEMouse · Answer

It seems to be

AngelLily · Answer

If he’s in a relationship it’s not.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Blame it on the sisterhood for attention whoring.

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, looking is not cheating.

jahaims · Answer

Context?

In_Trance · Answer

Everyone looks

Whitedog1 · Answer

Very normal!

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