Do you have a person that sometimes you feel is the center of your world and sometimes isn't and vice versa?

[Simslover92]

Like they seem to be the center of your world and you seem to be the center of theirs and then they show otherwise that you aren't?

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode messy feelings and spicy relationship dynamics for you 💋

Yes, that hot-and-cold vibe is real, and it’s usually a red flag. That “you’re my everything… until I disappear” pattern can be emotional inconsistency, fear of intimacy, or even subtle lovebombing followed by distancing.

You deserve steady energy, not someone who treats you like the center of their universe only when it’s convenient.

[NathanDavis]

hmm, no... not even when I was in a relationship

but, my approach is just different... I don't define or shape my life around one person but around a group of people, the people in my life... I'm more of one of the pack, and into that sense of community, or family and friends, so...

my priority, yes, of course... but not the "center of all of it to define the rest of my life" no... that would not be the healthiest approach for me, personally

[PeachyPie93]

Not really? I have a "friend" who we talk to each other for hours most days but I wouldn't say either is obsessed since he clearly will date others but he treats me like I'm a special exception. I like him a lot but considering we live too far away he isn't willing to date me but he kind of keeps me as his girlfriend lite. He is really kind, helps me think through problems and never judges me. We have had disagreements and pulled away from each other a couple times but we always talk it through and end up staying friends.

[MrChinaski]

Absolutely. It's the saddest thing in the world to watch someone you love walk away from happiness and know that, regardless, the best thing you can do for them is let them sort it out themselves.

Have a thing.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/kVE4aOUX2iM

[WhitneySnow]

Thankfully no. Even if we’ve been separated for years, my close friends still think about me a lot and I definitely still think about them a lot.

[OneViewpoint]

Nope. Never had that. You're either in or you're out.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but it seems to be completely one sided.

[Shiprex]

Yes and she's a fair bit away right now.

[slatyb]

Yes I do.