Do you think you are attractive and why?

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WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

Physically? I’ve seen better; I’ve seen worse🤷‍♂️ I like to think I land on the better side of “average”, but I also have conspicuously never been approached to be a model despite having the height requirements😂

I’ve also committed to looking cool while playing hockey over looking good to women, lmfao, in that I have long, curly hair that I basically wear in one of those “pineapple” up-do’s off the ice, so I look like blond Sideshow Bob, which I can’t imagine is helping my chances with the ladies🤣🤣🤣 But I’m a haircut away, lmao

Other than that, though, I’m in good shape, people usually are stunned that I’m not in my 30s, and I did well for myself back in my heyday, so unless I totally fell off, I’d say I’m generally attractive. I probably just wouldn’t make you crash your car trying to get a better look at me as I walked down the sidewalk, haha. I actually kind of feel like some gals would be like “meh”, but then the ones who DO like me have typically been like “DAAAMMMMNNNN”, and think I’m really good looking.

My lady in particular, lmao, she overrates the hell out of me. One of my beer league teams did a chicken wing theme and we put wing sauce/rub flavors in place of our last names. I was kicking around some ideas based on “jerk”, and was reading a list of jerk sub-flavors. I read “hot jerk” aloud, and she was like “no, you’re too good looking to use that; it’d come off as arrogant, not funny.” Sure, lady…. Tell that to the thousand cold-approach murderers I encountered while dying my thousand deaths on the dating scene, lmfao. I don’t think some of them would have spit in my face if my eyebrows were on fire😂 I just asked if I could buy you a drink, you don’t need to roll your eyes and look over at your friends like that, y’know?🤣🤣🤣

I think the blond thing makes me hit-or-miss. I feel like 2/3, maybe 3/4 aren’t that into it; but that niche third or quarter of the female population that does like blond haired guys, that’s where I make my living, haha.

For the total package? I think you could do a whole lot worse than me. I’m polite, chivalrous, kind, loyal, I’d say I’m fun, I like to think I have a great sense of humor, I’m very easy-going, I don’t think I’ve started an argument with any girlfriend in my life, I’m smart but not an egghead, I’m fairly big and can handle myself well physically if you’re into the whole “protection” thing….. I think I tick a lot of the common boxes I hear women are looking for. I’ve got my faults too, of course, but I think I come with a lot more green flags than red ones😊

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

People have told me so more than a few times in my life that I am, but when I see myself in the mirror and in photos, I just see a very average guy. Might be a BIT better than average at most, but certainly no model. I take pride in my personality though. I think that's the most attractive part of me.

7Phoenix7 · Accepted Answer

Yeah lol.. I have my insecure days like anybody else, but overall I do think I’m attractive. I like my face, my body, my style… and I think the way I carry myself adds to it too. Obviously I’m not going to be everybody’s type, but I don’t think you have to be

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

I don't know if I still am, but attractive was the word I used to hear from men.

It's funny because when I moved into an assisted living apartment building, rumor had it that the men were saying that I was HOT. 🔥 Hehehe 😂 😂

bobalife · Answer

Fine shyt when I feel like dressing up, make up, and how I carry myself when I’m out. Girls loves me or hates me. Guys stares at me or wanna talk to me rather they’re single or taken.
Modest beauty when I am classy at work with my formal wear, chic style, and bare minimum make up. My patients compliments me all the time. I get extra stares and attention from even upper management men and co-workers even when I’m just greeting them or walking by. My co-workers always want what I wear, how I carried myself, or compliments me.

Cute when I dont wear any make up and very, very casual. Somehow I still attract attention from really cute or hot guys even when I’m not trying…

Often my friends say I have a glow up in my 30s or people say I’ve gotten hotter. Somehow I beat the stereotype of aging somehow. I think it’s honestly just my confidence and how I carry myself because most importantly the only validation I need and want is the girl I see in the mirror everyday. I don’t think I’m perfect and we all have areas we wanna work on, but I know I do attract a good level of attention rather I’m trying or not, just present, or smiling at someone.

My truth sounds vain to some, but I usually keep myself humble irl. But it’s my most honesty I can speak on this question.

ohsheeT · Answer

To be honest with you I am just me that's all I need to be

There are people that tell me all kinds of things and if that's the way they see me that's cool I just look at myself as myself and I'm happy I'm a giver I can smile I don't let things get me down I keep going forward and creating each day a better place to live in the world that is crazy sometimes but yeah I like myself and if that makes me attractive then that's good I'm happy that makes me attractive then I'm good I'm financially stable if that makes me attractive I'm good I like all positive things if that makes me attractive then I'm good I'm just me and that makes me attractive to myself so that's good

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Attractiveness is based on how other people react to you physical appearance because at the end of the day it's meant to... Attract.. So based on that... Yes, I've gotten looked at from cars, catcalled a couple of times, given random compliments from strangers about how "pretty" or "handsome", or "sexy" I was.. Some wedding photographer wanted to try and get me to model, and another photographer casually mentioned that she wanted to photograph me.. I don't get that as much nowadays, but all that to say, I'm above average at least..

Med_guy1978 · Answer

Some people think they're very attractive but not so. Some people are and they know they are while others are but they can't see it. Some people are attractive to most people whereas most people are of taste to certain people. That's when presentation and personality can enhance or overturn that attraction 🧲
Girls tend to get a lot more feedback from guys so they tend to know they're attractive but girls are very subtle and inconspicuous so guys find it hard to tell if they are liked.
Generally, I don't get stared at but occasionally I do and it's very obvious. I get approached rarely and when I do it's usually by an Afro-Caribbean or South Asian girl. Am I attractive? I guess that depends on taste?

Karrimurray · Answer

As a girl, I’d say yes… depending on the lighting, the angle, and whether my front camera is behaving. 😂 Some days I look in the mirror and think, ‘Girl, you’re actually fine.’ Other days I open the camera and immediately question every decision I’ve ever made. But honestly, I think being attractive is also about how comfortable and confident you feel in yourself.

EmmaMary · Answer

I guess like most women, sometimes I do, and then sometimes not so much so!

Thankfully though, I do have the most reassuring husband who is constantly telling me that I'm quite simply the most drop dead gorgeous woman on the planet... That's good enough for me.

Lliam · Answer

Yes. 6'2"; attractive, young-looking face; good head of chestnut-colored hair; slender but not skinny; not super hairy.
Now, my hair is gray and I wear trimmed sideburns that connect to an aristocratic goatee and mustache. And I'm definitely not as fit as I was 20 years ago.

I'm an honorable guy.

NoDecision · Answer

What we think of ourselves is often jaded. Because let's face it. Everyone wants to look attractive. But sometimes our genes tell us, "Oh no, you're not." Damn genes! Of course, a lot of us look pretty good when decked out in nice clothes and a good makeup application.

_Jenny_ · Answer

People say that I am attractive, what do you think?

Brady · Answer

I let girls decide. Girls can tap or click my photo to get into my profile. Girls can do it again to make my photo bigger. Girls can click like if they think I'm attractive. Girls can click dislike if they think I'm not attractive. If they make a mistake they can click what they clicked first to cancel then click what they wanted.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Yes, I'm an attractive petty and beautiful women/lady. Big Kiss 💋

NathanDavis · Answer

I know... that I am attractive to some, and in some ways, yes other than that... I really never think about that nor see myself as attractive or not, and I just go around life being who I am, lmao...

Billlewis · Answer

Hell, yes. I'm 6'3", 200 pounds, I weigh only 20 pounds more than I did at 21, I have all my hair and I walk several miles every day. In fact, the only time people don't think I'm attractive is when I'm online.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I think I'm average despite evidence to the contrary from women constantly approaching me and trying to chat me up. I mean, I get it but I guess I don't want to admit it to myself. Seems conceited somehow.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Why, yes! I'm really, really, really, really, really... REALLY  ridiculously good-looking!

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. It’s one of my better qualities. What about you?

ellllltr · Answer

If I lose some weight I would probably be better looking.

Mariogirl09 · Answer

I used to be. But then I had a baby and fell into deep depression. Now im fat... cute but very fat

Nikki1989 · Answer

I am attractive compared to some others. I am average compared to many.

Lesbologist · Answer

It's not that I think I'm attractive... it's more like knowing most of these dirty bitches will cheat on whoever just to have sex with me.

browsingthroughthe · Answer

I'd say so 🙃 after all. I haven't lost my hair yet or even started the crown bald spot. So I must be lucky so far 🧬 😀 so far.

EzraIsShy76028 · Answer

I never really thought about it before. I've just always thought of myself as ordinary/mundane looking. Not ugly or handsome.

Iron_Man · Answer

Of course I am. I am the great White Hope” I ain’t no dope” I’m so pretty and I’m so great”” A little Muhammad Ali tunes, And Larry holmes but I made this one for myself 👍

Anonymous · Answer

I know I am just from the attention I get from men.

beebella · Answer

I have moments where I think I look cute, but for the most part, not really. 😅

Levin · Answer

I think my facial structure is better than most people's.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I have not had any complaints. I just try not to look like a slob, I stay clean shaven, I have a slender body due to a lot of exercise and I take care of my teeth.

Bricealan · Answer

@simslover92 Not now, but maybe a little bit when younger

FreyaRed · Answer

Yes, I've got good genes, at least physically.

AngryCarl3 · Answer

I have no idea, but at my age it's not important. What matters more is maintaining your dignity.

msc545 · Answer

I think the only things attractive about me, really, are my intelligence and my kindness. I'm under 6 ft. tall, I'm not rich, and I don't look like a male model.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Yup i do n i know it coz i can see it myself n also because countless men have told me so

DonaldDarko · Answer

I don't think so. Some women seem to really like me but I can't imagine why.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Yes. Because one of my girlfriends says so.

exitseven · Answer

I was just attractive enough to get a nice wife.

slatyb · Answer

Signs point to yes. Women are generally happy to talk to me.

Xdressertiff · Answer

As a guy yes but unfortunately when I dress up I look hideous.

Shiprex · Answer

My personality is but I don't think I am all that physically appealing.

NAILS0816 · Answer

Yes but only because I’ve been told. I’ve also dated some very attractive women and figured they wouldn’t be with an ogre.  Strange but without affirmation how would you know?

Suit_n_Ty · Answer

Nope. Not much at all. I've lived a life of hints at my appearance, jeering and taunting. In fact, I've been ghosted directly following a photo I sent. Nothing unsolicited, just... Me.

Mastersqwe · Answer

I've had been told I'm attractive... Unfortunately by both genders... But women have complimented me... From my big shoulders to the size of my butt.

Cidknee · Answer

Shit no! Even when I was young and goodlookin I didn't think so.

AgentG111 · Answer

Absolutely, based on what women have told me.

Still-alive · Answer

eh maybe like a 5 or 6/10. if i ever lose the weight maybe i might feel different

Laulenke · Answer

Nope I’m not dating for me when I was younger was tough I rarely ever made it past the friend zone

Anonymous · Answer

Hell noo I am not at all attractive  Look at me,

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I dont think i know i and and you are too. I know what your getting at so dont even try it

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

I am very attractive. There is no why, I just am

The_Wolf_2002 · Answer

Oh yes im attractive bkoz I'm fit have abs and i respect women's...

bowenw · Answer

Don't think so.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Nope. I’m all brains and personality.

xawyx-3 · Answer

Nah, I'm a pessimist :P

ElenaLena · Answer

Hot…

FrodoSkywalker007 · Answer

I was before my collapse

Extraterrestrial1999 · Answer

That's for other people to decide lol

dudeinohio · Answer

I can't self evaluate.

CubaPirate · Answer

Thats not for me to judge

whosnumber_1 · Answer

I wouldn't kick me out of bed

Erica8 · Answer

People say because of my kindness.

Anastasia96_ · Answer

I work at it and do so with confidence.

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