How attractive do you think you are?

[DishLady]

Check out this video and see if you agree... Which of the 12 signs do you often receive?

[Bricealan]

@DishLady Most/many people view their own attractiveness based on the "Looking Glass Self"... how others react to you, in public or in private. In my own case I find my Looking glass self - seems to give me positive approval

[HawkPerception]

6/10 on an average day. 7/10 on a good day.

If I'm in top physical shape and everything is on point (skin, hair, muscle definition, clothing), then I have the potential to be 7.5/10

[HawkPerception]

Oh didn't watch the video. I'll watch it now 😂

[HawkPerception]

So I watched it, and most of those I check off on, but I really think the video exaggerates the 12 tells. They're making it sound like, if someone was to do or say anything nice to you, it means you're attractive. And I don't feel that's the case. I always try to give compliments to others when I can, man or woman. If they have beautiful eyes, I tell them. If they're pleasant to deal with, I tell them. If they communicate well, I tell them. If they have good morals that I resonate with, I let them know I love the way they think.

I don't think someone complimenting is a clear indication of them finding you attractive 😅

[DishLady]

It doesn't acct so much for different personality types, but some of the cues are telling.

[Kaneki05]

I'm not. I'm surely more attractive than some guy who's doing meth but that's about it.

Also this video is funny, by it's logic no girls I purposefully don't look in the eye cause their attractive aren't so, Surely I'm not the only one who does this meanwhile if ugly I don't care so I do? And I never look in a mirror outside of when needed... which I feel is common for most men but I don't know but that means I'm ugly so correct I guess?

Seems like loose connections. And compliments yeah people just do that to be nice perhaps even sympathy at points or whatever. I've seen people even online compliment someone who isn't and that's online where people are the harshest.

[PeachyPie93]

Well the video is saying I am more attractive than I think.. because I do look in the mirror a lot and make eye contact with dudes looking at me often when I am out. But I never had any friends compliment me before, even my older sister and some friends have told me I'm a 4.. My sister now says she was lying back then.. but I don't know.. I would say I'm probably 5 or 6 lol..

[leahzrc]

This video made me realize I am more attractrive than I think

[leahzrc]

I get all 12 affirmations

[DishLady]

See? I’m glad it helped someone. I listened to it this morning and thought “hmm… ok, then.” It clarified a few things I was missing about interpersonal interactions.

[Levin]

You are attractive.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I am usually attractive for the persons I'm attracted to, which happens to be a very useful coincidence. Even if I don't think it's really a coincidence lol

[worldscolide]

If you ask me, you will get a vastly different opinion than if say you ask my wife.

[DishLady]

Hahaha. Fair enough.

[contentious]

I walked into Walmart the other day to grab 4 items. I was in there for a total of 5 minutes and about 25 women stared at me smiling.

[Iron_Man]

why don’t you tell me wouldn’t that be nice to hear it from you

[DishLady]

Lol. Hot af of course, iron man.

[Iron_Man]

Aww Thanks 😊

[dragoblack]

According to the video, I'm esthetically unattractive. i don't get complements, no one notices my eyes are a deep unpolished emerald green, the only "complements" i get are envy ones about my hair & outfit. My outfits are what catches peoples eyes, and no women actually take interest in me as a person, just what I'm wearing and about how my hair is so thick, full, and luxurious looking. Again, i don't get complements, what I have on gets compliments.

[DishLady]

The hair thing tends to be a big deal. Perhaps you're looking for compliments about your character but your appearance is distracting folks from noticing your personality? (It's a common issue.)

[dragoblack]

I'm more looking for compliments about myself, not about my style only, but only thing ever complimented is my style. Genuin compliments about me personally are nonexistent. As for my character, that's something that takes effort getting to know me... which is also incredibly rare.

[DishLady]

Probably bc something about your visual presentation is overwhelmingly worth commenting on to the folks meeting you. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[beefcakebradybatson]

Eight days from 72 , I've still got boyish good looks.

[DishLady]

Awesome. 🌼🌼🌼
Happy almost bday!

[beefcakebradybatson]

Many thanks, DishLady!!!

[lightbulb27]

on a really bad day 2 / 10. would you like to see a video... lol

on a good day 7/ 10

[robocop666]

I am slightly good looking. So many women check me out in a day I lose count. Sorry but you asked.

[DishLady]

Why the apology? But I was asking particularly as it connects to the video. :)

[ChicoFromThe305]

Im aware I'm on the average side which I'm just glad not to be on the terrible side

[ProbablyClueless]

Fairly attractive. Women's responses to me have been quite favorable.

[ilistengood]

Clint Eastwood cries, George Clooney wants my secrets, , im not , but I earned every crease

[Mark987]

I don't find I am at all... I try to eat well, and exercise as much as possible.

[foxsquirrell]

Judging by my luck on Tinder I must be not very attractive because I'm lucky if I get a date per year! It can only mean that girls don't find me appealing for some reason or another.

[DishLady]

Check out the video and see more your in-person effect on people in general (not just women).

[foxsquirrell]

In that case I think your question should have been more specific.

[DishLady]

I think it was clear enough that you should watch the video... 🤬

[Steelcore5280]

I don't evsn have to watch this video to know i have absolutely none of those qualities 🤣

[DishLady]

How do you know if you don't hear the criterion?

[LiamJHayden]

Average. Tall, fit, but a face that disappears in a crown - might as well belong to a typical NPC

[JFuzion]

The vid speaks for itself

https://www.youtube.com/embed/LBpYV7ookl0

😉

[Staximus]

Above average face and a short, wide, slightly fat body. Like a mobile tree stump

[Phoenix98]

Hmmm above average I guess.

[frankie2025]

could be better

[DishLady]

I think we can all safely say the same. Those who don't are probably lying to themselves.

[Anonymous]

A 7 out of 10. Girls have called me sexy, smart and hot many times before.

[DishLady]

We’re not really doing numbers… it’s based on the video.

[Jeff51]

Average I guess

[Guanfei]

On a scale of 1 to 10 I'd say... -3.

[DishLady]

Sigh… watch the short video and try again…

[Anonymous]

Absolutely zero maybe even minus 1

[DishLady]

A bit harsh, no? Everyone has SOME personality trait or feature folks like.

[Opinion Owner]

Nope nothing comes to mind

[Utahslastbadboy]

Very attractive

[DishLady]

Actually yeah, not bad. Good for you, man.

[Anonymous]

I don't consider myself attractive.

[Nonamegiven]

10 out of 12

[yk9998]

8/10