Is it normal for guys to look and like nude pictures or nsfw pictures of girls online while being in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We have a long distance relationship and have been good together with semi-good communication. So for context, the other day I was on twitter and decided to fool around and just check if he has a twitter account. We often fool around and say how weird our twitter feed is and I was curious if I could find his account. It might sound wrong to some that I’m snooping around finding his account, but I had no bad intentions and was only expecting really shitty memes and such. And so I did that, I decided to take a simple guess and put his old username in discord in the twitter search bar and to my surprise his acc with his name came up. I was laughing and everything at first cause it was filled with memes that peaks his humor but then I started to see many liked posts of this one adult cosplayer who posts really nsfw pictures. I started to feel really upset and started to compare myself to her cause she was really beautiful and had features that were the complete opposite of mine (body-wise). He’s a good boyfriend and would compliment me a lot but when I saw the posts, I don’t know if i can still accept his compliments. Am I overreacting?

[boggboss]

Thats down to what u guys are happy with in the relationship have u discussed subjects like this before or other porn related stuff and how that makes u feel or not

[Asker]

I mean we’ve discussed about watching porn and all that, which I don’t do much really but I do know that he does watch porn sometimes (his words not him) and hentai but I didn't think it would also involve looking at nude pics of girls and adult cosplayers 🤷🏻‍♀️

[boggboss]

Is that not porn?

[Asker]

I mean I guess.. but I don't know it felt different for me in the moment

[Asker]

Like, i know it’s somewhat considered as porn but at the same time it feels different cause it’s only the girl in those posts and pictures

[boggboss]

What does that even mean only the girl in the posts and pictures again if your bit fine with him watching oirn thats fine and for u to communicate but I'm trying to see what makes this different

[Asker]

Well, I don’t really think you’ll be able to fully understand not unless your a girl (speaking truthfully and not like spiteful or anything like that) since it’s just something that I guess bothers us girls like for example, If a girls partner is looking at bikini pics of girls on insta, it’s like the same thing as to what I’m experiencing. I don't know I really don’t know how to explain it 😅

[boggboss]

So because u are jelouse of what he is seeing then and because u saw what he viewed?

[Asker]

i guess so yeah

[boggboss]

Ao like said speak yo him and say u are not comftble with him watching porn and see if he will compromise

[Asker]

I'll go do that, thanks

[Nifrayu]

There is really nothing abnormal about it. But if he is hiding this from you and it bothers you, then I would ponder whether or not you two have a healthy relationship.

[Nikki1989]

Only if you are dating a jackass. Good men don't need that garbage.

[Asker]

Yeah…

[MJtheCoach]

I bet you're single! lool

[Benplus10]

Completely normal. Just because your on a diet, doesn’t mean you can’t look at the menu

[stratford]

Very normal - guys have a high libido and can't help it.

[Asker]

So it’s like urges?

[stratford]

Yeah - it's like our brain gets taken over with a one track thought, and there is only one way to get rid of that thought.

[Asker]

I see, thank you for letting me know then

[stratford]

No problem. Stay safe on here - there are lots of creeps about!

[Greatful]

In a realationship there shouldn't be anyone else i couldnt accept that i want what i give

[slatyb]

Completely normal. When are you going to meet?

[Asker]

I have a plan on meeting him next year since he can’t meet me cause he doesn’t have a passport (surprisingly) and I have documents on process right now for my nationality that will probably be finished by next year

[MJtheCoach]

I think you need to have your own life.

[Asker]

by "own life" that means?

[MJtheCoach]

YOU need your own life which sounds like you dont have one.

[Asker]

man, you dont even know me yet you're assuming i dont have a life just cause i shared my experience and asked a question about it 😂😂

[MJtheCoach]

That’s because you don’t!

[Asker]

haters gonna hate ig 🤷‍♀️ ig bro knows everything fr

[MJtheCoach]

YOu have nothing to say besides having a 12 year old mentality...

[Asker]

LMAAAOOOO i guess im a kid living in an adults body 🥳🥳🥳 im so proud

[MJtheCoach]

Yeah, you have unlikable traits and you’re extremely annoying. The only thing the guys put up with you is because what you have between your legs and that has an expiration date.

[Asker]

💀💀

[eagle1951]

talk to him

[Asker]

I’m planning on doing that but I’m not sure when

[eagle1951]

20 years huh

[Asker]

ofc not that long 😭, I’m planning next week when we’re both more available and have time to talk

[eagle1951]

hope it goes well for you

[Asker]

Thank you

[eagle1951]

np alway glad to help if i can

[spartan55]

Yes, you are.

[Asker]

oh, my fault then 😅

[Anonymous]

No it’s not

[Asker]

Oh, well could you explain why?