So I have a an odd and kind of personal question?

I just recently found out that my boyfriend of 2 years is actually super ticklish around the hip area and it is causing problems in our relationship. I can’t wrap my arms around his waist when hugging him without him getting ticklish and I can’t touch him anywhere near there during sex or it will ruin it entirely because he’ll lose it. I don’t think he can help it but it is causing problems for us.

My question is, is there any therapy or ways that i can touch him and hold him without tickling him unintentionally? Get him used to my hands there or help it not be so sensitive for him?
So I have a an odd and kind of personal question?
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