So I have a an odd and kind of personal question?

[Anonymous]

I just recently found out that my boyfriend of 2 years is actually super ticklish around the hip area and it is causing problems in our relationship. I can’t wrap my arms around his waist when hugging him without him getting ticklish and I can’t touch him anywhere near there during sex or it will ruin it entirely because he’ll lose it. I don’t think he can help it but it is causing problems for us.

My question is, is there any therapy or ways that i can touch him and hold him without tickling him unintentionally? Get him used to my hands there or help it not be so sensitive for him?

[Anonymous]

I would say rather then try to remedy it, use it to your advantage during sex, some people find tickling during sex a turn on or kink, and after doing this a few times it might desensitize him there so he doesn't feel as ticklish anymore.

[Avicenna]

This is probably a question for medical professionals

[Asker]

Maybe it’s a skin thing or something internal? I just want him not to be uncomfortable.

[leahzrc]

Lol that is bizarre I love being tickled it makes me excited

[Asker]

My mans won’t even let me touch him

[leahzrc]

I would say ask him about the trauma behind it and if there is none. Force tickle him until it goes away

[Asker]

I don’t know if there is or isn’t any trauma, I’ll talk to him, but force tickling him would honestly make him so mad, like he genuinely hates it.

[leahzrc]

A wise man once said, "He'll get over it"

[lokiloko]

You're gonna just have to respect his body. No touching his hips. Surely that's not a relationship breaker

[Asker]

Of course not, I still want him to be comfortable with me.

[Anonymous]

Childish issues.

[Asker]

You can be ticklish at any age.