Polls

Please do share your stories about them.. Good or bad..(positive comments may bright up someone's day).. If someone had a bad experience, I'm sorry you had to go through it.

Just for fun! :)

I wonder. What are you all doing?

My extended family are ariving one after another. We'll be together till next week.

I love the kids. 🤗

Imagine your life is a movie, and you're the main character because it's your life. Are you a protagonist who is a hero, anti-hero, or villain? Why?

If you're wondering about me:It's me hi, I'm the problem, it's me. I think I'd be the anti-hero and no, it's not just because I'm a Taylor Swift fan. I think at the core, I'm the kind of person who always tries to do the right thing, but, sometimes when I'm a little too in my feelings I can become reckless and selfish and act irrationally because I feel bad, and that creates damage I only see after the damage has been done. Why I'd not class myself as a villain is because usually after I see the damage I've done, I will try to fix it and own up to my mistake, and I feel a villain would just take the completely selfish route and ruin things because if they can't be happy nobody can, whereas I still may not be happy but once I'm back to rationality I'm like: "Okay I did something bad, how can I fix this?" Also I tend to have a lot self-sabotaging qualities that I'm completely aware of, but for the most part indulge in anyway and often I do little to change but I'm trying to change that now, I just can't expect it to happen overnight. In the past my thought process was more: "I'm destructing myself, not anyone else, so why should I care? It's just me." But that's an incredibly toxic mindset to have and I'm trying to change because I have a lot of potential to do well, but because of my self-destructive tendencies that potential often just stays potential. But I will change don't worry.

Anyway enough about me, what about you?

*If so why?

I'm curious as to how many married couples married someone like a childhood friend vs someone they ran into and got romantically involved shortly thereafter.

In other words how long was it before you and your spouse got romantically involved? You can use a measurement of 6 months for the yes or no poll (was it over 6 months since meeting each other before you and your spouse got romantically involved).

Please read the definition I'm going for before answering

Agreeableness: the tendency to act in a cooperative/harmonic/pleasing manner

One of these exes is happily married and the other one has a questionable reputation. You want to be a graceful lady. Should you agree to have these girls on your big day?

We've dated a bit but it came to seem he was more interested in sex. Something I broached & in response we arranged to go to a movie.

Come movie day we talk 3 times over the phone. He doesn't mention this friend once. Says he'll be at my place in a few hours.

Long story short he finally answers why he never showed 3 hours AFTER arriving at his friend's. 6-7 hours after we spoke about going to the movies.

Never thought about texting or calling.

And this is despite saying he loves me.

This to me proves he's only interested in sex. But he is trying to say he's not and that to find the "truth" I should be more objective. What truth? He failed to prove he cares beyond sex in my eyes.

Should I ask what truth or just block him?

I'm about to eat my potato salad with an egg but knowing that new years is coming, I wonder if y'all would be taking bets as a little celebratory bit for staying alive this whole year and not dying. Or you're not and happy to just be alive. Either way, what will y'all be doing that might b fun this new year's eve?

I told him Merry Christmas yesterday and this was his response.

Would you think that is just how some people talk all the time, or that it means more?

I deleted a mail from chromebook, and I have gmail in my iPhone. So will the mail be automatically deleted in iPhone?

- A single mother with kids of 1 or 2 men; she selected wrong. She was likely an unstable girl and had a past in her younger years. The child's father bailed out.

- A single mother via IUI (artificial insemination). She likely got strung along in a long-term relationship and by the time she found out he would never marry her, she had wasted years. Not wanting to kill her remaining years, she went to the fertility clinic to it done.

Who do you think is less desirable and would find it harder to find a relationship (a suitable partner), to find love?

- An older woman in her 30's

- An infertile man (he knows he can't ever have kids and has to tell the woman)