Me and my ex boyfriend of 4 years broke up last September
It got toxic so I walked away - it was a really bad break up
There was no contact after
Until on new years day - he sent me a rude message/email saying:
- happy new year sl*t
- no guy will ever want me
- im ugly
- my friends will not stay forever
- messaging me because im nothing
- im just a "tap and dump"
- guys only would f*ck me if they're desperate or no other option
Why is he sending me this?
It was New Year's, so he was feeling sorry for himself because he didn't have a girlfriend anymore. He was probably drunk. He wanted to ruin you New Year because he blames you for dumping his sorry ass and leaving him single.
A-holes tend to see themselves as victims because they are incapable of accepting responsibility for their own actions and behavior.
By sending you that email, he only proved that you were right to kick him to the curb. Good riddance to bad trash.
Don't take any of what he said to heart. It was bullshit. He was just lashing out trying to hurt you.
He’s definitely obsessed and bitter he doesn’t have a right to contact you like that and harass you out of the blue
he is trying to lower you self-esteem, people with lower self-esteem will let other people treat them worse than people with high self-esteem meaning you would be more likely to go back to a toxic relationship
He’s not over you
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he's trying to ruin your new year. Dont feed into it
To get under your skin. Why haven't you blocked him?
You said he's toxic.
Sounds like man’s in love
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