My ex and I have been broken up for about a month. Two weeks ago she gave me some closure by explaining why we broke up. We go to the same college (small campus) and we see each other a lot. I saw her at the bar with another guy and we locked eyes which was awful. I masked my feelings by pointing and laughing while she looked guilty and ashamed. Ever since then I have been avoiding her like the plaque. I have only seen her at a distance and the same goes for her. After a week of this I got a text from her 3 am on Thursday night (most likely drunk)
"I'd just like you to know something. I'm so tired of you immature $hit. Everyday I wake up to something new. First you're too immature to say hi in person then its facebook and then its deleting every single evidence of us existing on facebook or even trying to have some type of real friendship (I can see you and Lauren are very happy as friends now) and I just want you to know I don't want you calling me in a few weeks I don't want to be friends with you I just hope you go away just like you've tried so hard to make me go away. I'm sorry you are so bitter about everything but I hope you are happy with the way you've dealt with things after."
It came out of no where. I still love the girl but she has no idea how hard it has been on me. The break up was her idea and she did it because she felt like she was forcing the relationship and was no longer willing to sacrifice time for me. I asked her to leave me alone a couple of times because its the only way we could become friends/me get over it. Lauren and I never hang out but my ex gets jealous because she use to be my best friend before my ex. What does this text mean? Should I contact her or just keep ignoring her?
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She's crazy, trust me if a girl wants you she will have you. You can do better than a crazy girl, just because you break up with someone doesn't mean that you can't be friends, and if you can't it doesn't mean that you have to be rude. I'm more than sure she just misses your attention and hasn't found anyone to fill the "void" that she is feeling. For her to have been your girlfriend she knows nothing about you, you would think by all of the time you spent together she would understand your feelings, but that jsut goes to show that she is selfish, and your relationship wasn't strong to begin with. Please spend more time with Other women.0