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I was at the mall today and this guy stopped me to tell me I’m gorgeous.

I looked around to see if it was a prank and ultimately said no. And I thanked him for being sweet

then I tried to leave and he got in front of me to stop me, I said I was in a hurry.

he said I was too beautiful for this opportunity to just slip by and if I could just take his number

I said no sorry I’m in a hurry. I didn’t want to say I’m too old, I just knew it and wanted to leave and he got in-front of me again and insisted I take his number so I did it.

so he’s texting me now and I told him I’m more than 10+ years older than you so this is not gonna work, wish you the best.

but he insists that it can work because I’m exactly his type. He says

and what’s weirder is that I wasn’t wearing any makeup at all! And wearing large oversized pants and large oversized shirt. How is this even attractive. I feel strange.

I almost never go out. I don’t have a partner and don’t have kids.

I want family as most do, but I think a 27 year old will not stay with me because of the age even if he says he feels im his type.

what’s your guy’s advice?

I know plenty of women who by 40 are already done with relationships, already had kids and just want to have fun, maybe that type is the type most 27 year olds would want because it’s just a “fun time” and then move on..

but I’m different. I’m not done with relationships because I’ve never had one. I’m not done with kids because I’ve never tried to have one before. I’m want a permanent partner, love and a little family.

If he insists I need to just keep saying no right?

we look about the same age but the fact remains I’m 10+years older

Should I wear black or white shoes with this or is this look ok?

Regardless of how the relationship ended, would you want to know? What if you were in a new committed relationship? How would hearing about your ex being hurt/dead impact you?

I am ready for cooler weather here in the northern hemisphere. I work in an office. Which of these outfits do you like the most for fall?

So this morning a guy came from the city to adjust/ fix the water meter of our house…. then when I’m on my way to work my mom texts me saying that the water bill is gonna be much higher and for me to be taking my showers at my boyfriends place on the weekends…(my toilet also happens to be leaking and that could be what’s making the bill a bit higher).

she was assuming that water is included with his maintenance fees but it’s not and secondly my mom always talks about my boyfriend anytime there’s an issue with something at the house…

im not married to my boyfriend yet and secondly I’m not gonna go there like a homeless bum just to use his shower….

was I right to be mad with her? Is she being irrational or am I mistaken here?