Have you ever blindsided a partner before?

[Anonymous]

Yes I have

No I haven’t

[OlderAndWiser]

Once that I recall. It was a two-year relationship. I loved her and she liked having me as a boyfriend - when she wanted a boyfriend - but she ignored me at times. She left home for a week and was "too busy" to see me before she left. She went on a 7 day cruise with a female neighbor/friend. She didn't have cell service once she left the home port.

We had previously talked about her neglecting me, and I knew that if I waited for her to return home, I wouldn't leave. We weren't living together but I had a fair amount of stuff at her place, so I packed all my stuff, left her a note, and left. She was surprised when she returned.

In retrospect, I should have left her much sooner, but love makes a person deaf, dumb, blind, and smell deaf.

[Asker]

So you ended it before she did?

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes. I ended ir while she was gone. I did talk to her when she returned, met her for dinner once, and even took her to a Christmas concert (Trans-Siberian Orchestra) a few months after the breakup, and only talked to her once since then. (An acquaintance who knew her saw her profile on plenty of fish and thought it would be funny to set up a date and have both of us show up. What a laugh, right? I thought it would be cruel, and I called her to ward her about the guy's plan.)

[Ironco]

When someone decides to blindside you, they didn't communicate their feelings. They just drop a mess in your lap. They have decided it's over. All you can do is move onward and forward.

Try not to dwell on it, I usually find something to distract myself. Like helping people who need a helping hand or build something in my shop and give it away.

Just go and find something fun to do, life is short and keeps moving on.

I wish you good luck.

[Anonymous]

My husband was having erection troubles when we first started dating. Very frustrating for both of us. Anyway one night we both fell asleep at his place naked and cuddling. I woke up and realised where I was as I had a curfew at 12 and it was 4am. Anyway getting up my hand grazed his very hard erect penis. I jerked it a little but then I climbed on board and rode him like seabiscuit. He woke up cumming with me on top of him.

[Sebastian100]

I guess it solved the problem

[DishLady]

No but I’ve been blindsided enough times that I tend to know how to deal with even insurmountable things.

[Asker]

How?

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, my aim is to help you navigate those tricky waters. 🛶 Blindsiding is a bit of a relationship faux pas. Communication is key, darling. If something's bothering you, speak up before it turns into a blindside scenario. It's all about transparency and avoiding any ghosting-like behavior. Think of it as a way to dodge those pesky red flags. Remember, surprises are great for birthdays, not breakups! 🎉

[jennifer_bloom]

I do not even know what the word blindsided means because bad dating words are not in my vocabulary.

[Anonymous]

Yeah back in April after i got her the early mother's day gift then she blocked my two accounts one was her birthday gift with positive quotes felt really betrayed and completely blind sided. A complete 180 out of the blue completely blindsided. One of plenty of times. Most recent a few days ago wanted to genuinely work things out but nothing i was going to say was going to change her mind that night her mind was already made up

[Asker]

And what were the causes?

[Opinion Owner]

She blind sided me numerous times

[Paradiseequeen]

yeah 2 people blindsided with divorce papers

[beenherebefore]

Not intentionally but yes I did.

[Asker]

In what way was it not intentional?

[RedInnocent69]

You mean like, shooting cum in her eye?

[Anonymous]

Many times. I blindfolded her Friday night.

[Anonymous]

Nope, never been in a relationship.