Have you ever been blindsided in one day by a person who you trusted completely? What did you do about it?

[sage2021]

This is a BIG question. When you put so much trust into a person because they seemed to be on your side and wouldn't do anything to hurt you and then they suddenly became this totally different person in one day that wasn't at all the person that you came to know.
How do people live with themselves after hurting another person so bad? Especially when the other person didn't do anything at all for this to happen.
Big betrayal that wasn't cheating or that has anything to do with sex.

[Pearl222]

I understand that and same thing happened to me a while back as well. I don’t know how they deal with it but for your own healing it’s better to forgive and move on.

[sage2021]

@Pearl222

That's exactly what I did. He was so mean to me he was like a completely different person. He called me names (I have never had anyone call me names before) so I emailed him and told him that I forgive him because that's what God asks me to do. If I didn't forgive him then why would God ever forgive me for anything?🙏🏼

[Pearl222]

That’s great and hard to do, but glad you did it, for your own peace of mind.

[FreyaRed]

I have never trusted someone completely. Even people who love you have moments they want to hurt or exploit you.

[McSteamy]

It happened to me 3 years ago. I trusted her more than anyone. She's the one listened to my happy and sad moments online. But one day she turned into other side and said I shouldn't have got closer to you and she left forever. I didn't even meet her once because of long distance. I'm not the same person since then. The part of my soul left me. It is why getting close to people online is scariest. Odds are less for long term relationships.

[sage2021]

@McSteamy

That sounds like what happened to me. Saturday he messaged me and said that I was his guardian angel 😇 and on Tuesday he turned on me like a pitbull dog!! I couldn't believe my ears at what he was saying to me. It was like he was a mean complete stranger to me.
The first thing he said I knew something was different about him. It was like aliens abducted hi., reprogrammed his brain and it was over in my mind. I wasn't going to put up with him and his craziness!!🤪

[McSteamy]

That's horrible experience. I had such a good relation with her over phone calls. I never thought it would happen. People would leave us one day. No one is forever with us. We have to accept it

[Ironco]

It happens.

Sometimes the other person feels they need a change or aren't getting what they need from you, so they decide to call it quits, instead of telling what they want.

All you can do is let them have time to figure out what they want and need.

If they decide to come back great, if not oh well. There's nothing else you can do.

[sage2021]

@Ironco

Yes, that's true but he could have used his words and just told me he needed some space. Saturday I was his guardian angel 😇 and for no reason by Tuesday I was the devil.😈
I don't get it because I didn't do anything to him for him to change like that towards me.
I think that he has problems and he was projecting them towards me.
There's no turning back now. He said some terrible and hurtful things to me.
I just can't believe he's the same person - unless he was wearing a mask before and his mask slipped off and the mean guy is the real deal.🤷🏼‍♀️

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Yes, and this why I don't give as much trust anymore, and I see people that are not my children as temporary and replaceable.

[NathanDavis]

not personally, no

[BeachBreak420]

Yes an ex best friend outed me before I was ready.

[FenixG45]

Fortunately, this has not happened to me yet!

[Miristheiss]

Luckily no.