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I wore this outfit today. All of my friends liked the outfit. Some thought thought I should not wear hose in the summer and show off the natural look and my pedi, while some thought it didn't matter. What is your opinion?

Not far from me, there's a 100m tunnel you have to walk through to get from a village to a neighbouring town. It's unlit bar a few little red ground lights to mark the path. It's particularly dark at night, so a torch is handy, but that just adds character. The pictures are of it.

Many places have a pedestrian tunnel, some long some short. But how do you feel about walking through them?

If you go for a drive in the country, there's a good chance you'll have to drive over a cattle grid. These are designed to keep livestock in a field while still allowing cars to follow a road that runs through it.

When you drive over one, your car vibrates and shakes and it makes a funny noise. Some people find it fun while others a little intimidating. There have been several motorbike accidents involving them and reports of animals simply rolling over them.

But Where do you stand?

Long story short, not to criticize, I'm just giving a description of how she looks and her health. Details: She has always taken jabs at me on the job for being fit. She'll ask me intrusive questions like," Are you still losing weight? What size are you now? You don't need to lose any more weight." I've never asked her for her opinion. Yet she's overweight, feet/legs/arms swollen, high blood pressure , on multiple medications, has glaucoma, can't drive. I've never once brought up how unhealthy she is despite knowing her circumstances. Now her husband has died because, like her, he didn't take care of himself.

Her mother is just as overweight with the same health issues, including heart failure, yet her mother said ," omg you're getting too skinny!" I told the mom, " I'm healthy and not on multiple medications , don't have heart failure, and swollen ankles like you. Are you feeling okay?" She then said oh um well did I say something wrong? "I said," Oh no, you didn't bother me. I'm just saying. Now they're trying to be all nice to me, but I'm keeping my distance. This is a work setting, by the way.

Hey everyone,
As the saying goes, " If it ain't broke, don't fix it." I've been living at my apartment for 7 years now. It's affordable, I'm comfortable, and there are no issues besides a bug problem because the apartments are old. I'm having mixed emotions on whether I should move or not to something more upgraded with a change of scenery or if I should stay where I am?

Hi Guys and Gals!

I came across an article after hanging out with a few friends yesterday.

Reading closely, the article reinforces the idea that on some level we're basically flirting with most people we grow close to... friends as well as folks we consider "relationship material". Hmm. It reminded me of what y'all said reply to a few of my previous behavioral questions:

• How often do you text someone (opp gender) who you're just friends with?
• Why would someone with reductive thought patterns suddenly want to be friends when he doesn't value his interactions with women?
• Be honest, someone writes you a long message/email (1+ page), do you read the whole thing or just skim?
• Girls, Ladies, ever had a friend who claims she "considers you a sister" but is constantly stabbing you in the back?
• Seems one of my guy friends has caught "girl next door" fever... WT* am I supposed to do?
• How do you know if a guy just sees you as a potential "side piece"?
• Go Fish: Do guys "fish" to see if their close female friends are interested even if the gal only sees him as an elder brotherly figure, nothing more?

(It's a lot... those who have time to browse can, those who don't... skip ahead to the poll. I'm just trying to tie a few things together pertaining to a behavioral issue I'm trying to assess and resolve amicably.)

SO...

• Please see which type of flirt you think you are...
• Share the strangest flirtatious comment someone used on you...
• Share your biggest (or most interesting) flirting blooper.