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I dated a girl several years ago dated her for about 3 months. One night she revealed to me that she had an abortion by the guy she dated just before me and from that very moment I knew it was over I could not date her anymore. Her and my Mom remained friends over the years and I know my Mom regretted that we broke up. However I knew after she revealed she had an abortion there was someone missing someone that should have been there but wasn't.

Others may see this as more of a personal story which it is that alright but it's also how things work and they may give their opinions. The bottom line is this yes it was her body (not the baby's) but she was allowed to do what she did and she did what she did and then came my choice. Not that I date anymore but if so if I did I could never date anyone that has had an abortion and that is my choice. And therefor men have choices too and I made mine.

If guys and girls were to have trivia about how their opposite thinks, who'd win? Hmmm

My current partner told me in the past she was very interested in being mother, and eventually starting a treatment to do so.

But what I didn't expected is that she was about to come home today, and tell me that she had just started it without mentioning me nothing prior to that.

This came after having an argument the last day, where I told her I had doubts about the relationship due to certain behaviors of her making me uncomfortable frequently.

But the argument ended being solved. Or at least, that's what I thought.

But today she came home, showed good behavior, complimented me, and then BOOM! Dropped a surprise.

The point is: I greatly suspect this is a manipulation tactic to hurry me up, and not looking into the relationship objectively.

What do you think?

Jeff! who are you thinking about?

I did community college for a short time and while it was fun, it was a major rip off.

College is for doctors, lawyers and people who need connections early in life.

My life would be so much easier if I had went to welding school or got into carpentry.

Still would have started a business.

Do you wait until you feel that you are in love with your partner to suggest that you two date exclusively (NOT asking about living together)? Can you enter an exclusive relationship without already being in love? Is being in love not the only thing that needs to happen before you agree to date exclusively? Or is there no relationship between these two ideas at all?

On several occasions, I have begun dating a lady exclusively after three or four dates, when I certainly was not in love with her and we had not yet had sex, but I did feel some affection as well as physical attraction.

And you?

"We live in a fallen world where most people have been influenced or 'infected' demonically. Since many are busy ignoring this, I'm not sure why anyone expects to meet good people without understanding this. A lot of loneliness also comes from tending only to the physical and ignoring the spirit and the unseen world. Man cannot live by bread alone..."

I know you've seen many questions on this site asking about your BODY count. So many people think that the most important number is how many partners you've given your naked body. That's important, to some extent, but how many partners have you given your heart? How many times have you been in love?

I've been in love 8 times in 53 years of relationships and marriage. The level of mutual commitment in some of the early relationships did not compare to my later relationships, but the feelings were there and the loss of each of those relationships had a very significant impact on me. One of those relationships lasted 17 years and each of the others lasted at least a year.