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I had a crush on a guy for 2 years and I tried to see the good in him every time he was being an absolute ass and a jerk to me. I was fine with him not liking me. I never acted upon my feelings

I invited him to my 30th and of course he didn't want to come so he clicked no, even though I went to his 30th and bought him a very expensive watch- which he sold and got money off. Which is fair enough. It's his gift, he could do what he wanted with it.

Anyway, he bought me a gift and upon him handing it to me, I politely said "sorry, but in our culture whenever someone didn't attend my birthday celebration, I cannot accept the present". He looked shocked and insulted.

I feel bad but considering all those times he treated me like garbage, was this the right thing to do?

This guy (mike) came to talk to me after he saw me sitting alone in a coffee shop. He was with his friend (sam). Sam and mike both came to sit close to me. Then Sam went somewhere and Mike striked up a conversation with me. He was clearly interested me and was asking questions about me. After a while Sam came back and introduced himself to me. He told me his name and that his dad owns a shop near this coffee shop. He also said that I looked pretty. At this point I was very confused and didn't know what to answer to Sam. I was thinking why would he compliment me when he can clearly see that his friend Mike is interested in me. After talking for little while Sam was showing with his body languge to mike "cmon lets go". Poor mike wanted to ask for my number but his friend was impatient. Was Sam just a jerk or he was also interested in me thus acting this way?