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I want to keep it as anonymous as possible.

I am East Asian. I dated a Vietnamese girl and I truly loved her and made sure she knew that. I was convinced she did too. Her parents are very strict about her going out and meeting other guys. (we are both undergrad college age and live with parents)

I was confident about meeting her parents and I did met them on 3 different occasions. Twice during holiday party at their place and once, I had a dinner with her family. (her, her dad, mom, her brother, me). To me, all of them liked me. Her family, her parents' friends, their kids, her friends etc. She also told me that I was the second boyfriend she introduced to her parents and they didn't like the first one. (she had many many boyfriends before that she kept secret from her parents). She said her parents liked me but only complained that I wasn't Vietnamese.

(3 months in)
Everything was good, honeymoon stage kinda faded and dates felt like just chilling. (it was during a break so we met quite frequently) One day after a normal date, she went home and didn't talk to me for a while. I know she got scolded by her parents for always coming home late. (10pm lol) I ask her what's wrong and she said give me some time alone. I assumed it has to do with her parents and her school/work stress so I didn't talk to her for about a week and a half. Then, on her social media, she posts a picture of two movie tickets (knowing that I would see it). that made me wonder if she's was okay now so I was expecting her to text saying she wants to see me or smthing. But 3 days after that, she texts me she wants to break up cuz she wasn't ready for relationship. I was devastated. So I told her not to do this over text and I went to her house at night to talk. She told me she wants a break from a relationship and she feels stressed. I had no choice.

Then she starts hanging out with a guy within a month. (now dating 2months later) I think it was the two movie tickets but what do I know

I ask this out of experience and I can say, it definitely isn't. at all. sure, I've gotten one irl relationship that went ok for a few months, but the rest were only online and they didn't last long at all.

As for my chances and experiences with other girls irl, it always seems like they won't date me BECAUSE I'm the nice guy.

In junior year of HS, I asked my close friend of over a year who had been flirty with me if she would date me: "Yeah, but after we get in a better place mentally. then I think I'll be able to handle a relationship" (we both have depression) and not a week goes by and she texts me "you probably already know but me and (my friends name) are dating now."
[I didn't know, until she told me]

Another friend from when I just got into highschool basically led me on, allowing me to pay for tickets and meals whenever we hung out, and she went and chose another guy without saying anything to me. And to this day she doesn't feel and guilt or think that she did anything wrong.

I ask this question about being the Good or Nice Guy now because of last night, when one of my new friends that I was planning to meet up with at Anime Expo for the first time (who knows I've been crushing on her for 2 months) suddenly told me that she was dating someone online last night. This comes after she tells me we couldn't date because she couldn't handle online relationships, and the girl she's dating now is the one I gave advice about in order to save their friendship a few months ago.

Side question: is it normal to feel like your chest is completely void of anything after all of this?

Final note: I feel just completely done after all this 🙃