Search Results: ideal body weight

I'm am between 5'7-5'8& never wear even the smallest heel because of this. I'm very skinny on the upper part of my body, tiny long arms, small perky breasts (large a cup-small b, it's hard to have any cleavage w/o a special bra),& small waist. As for my lower body-not trying to sound conceited but my ass gets checked out a lot. Its not huge or amazing or anything but it's def enough to jiggle and is bubble shaped. My legs aren't nearly as skinny as my arms but they are long so they aren't as thick as I'd like. Also have borderline large hands/feet they are petite just my fingers and toes are long-gross I know... aside from the obvious flaws I think my face is what would mainly make someone think I'm attractive it's not crazy striking but its proportionally shaped for the most part, with nice sized lips, blue eyes&long light brown hair with blonde highlights. I probably sound insecure or shallow for asking and I'm well aware personality is more important than looks but I can help but be just a tad self conscious about my body due to teasing while still in school. I was once called a bean pole because of my height/skinny frame and told I have "mosquito bites" also overheard guys at a party saying "she's got a 10 face but who cares go for the thicker chick with the alright face and dime body" plus seeing all these memes "real men like curves dogs like bones" has stuck with me through the years. Keep in mind these remarks were before I graduated gained just a little more weight and got a nice butt. But overall besides the booty (thank you mom!) I'm still the same tall skinny chick and wonder if the now present ass coupled with the face makes a difference or if a shorter girl with a ok face and nice thick body would be ideal. When I say thicker I mean curvy but still a healthy weight. Obviously it's all preference. I'm just trying to get a general idea here. Also don't afraid to be honest I promise my self image isn't as fragile as it prob sounds from this post lol

I have recently divorced and have 3 children but unfortunately my figure has changed a lot from 20 years ago and it won't spring back into shape like it used to. I have lost 2 stone and have another 4 to lose to be the doctors ideal weight. I am toned as I work out 5 days a week but I am paranoid men will not want to be with me and be disappointed or embarrassed by being seen with me. I have a beautiful face and blonde hair and have done modelling in my younger years. What would be a mans perspective on this?