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One Brave Man Standing in Front of a Bunch of Fat Girls Asking Them To Stop Skinny Shaming

One Brave Man Standing in Front of a Bunch of Fat Girls Asking Them To Stop Skinny Shaming


As I went on a meme/gif hunt (my new source for insta-comedy these days sadly) I realized there's a war going on, gentlemen, and it's between skinny and not so skinny girls. It's hard to believe anything happens in existance that doesn't involve us...and quite frankly I'm not sure I do believe it, but if it's true then I feel like we owe it to the skinny girls who've we made the target of non skinny girl aggresion for our putting them on a pedestal.


1) You aren't a nutritionist...not every skinny girl is malnourished.


Supermodels are not malnourished though they might not be as healthy as someone who can maintain a higher bodyweight. To call someone malnourished is to call them sick and jsut because they are somewhat under what's considered the ideal average weight in terms of health doesn't mean they're going to die of starvation. You seriously have to have some kind of background in the stuff to accuse someone of hurting themselves by not eating. It's their body and while of course if someone is passing out constantly because they aren't eating to intervene, it's not right to bully someone into eating that slice of greasy pizza when they said they don't want it. The majority of these skinny girls...they do see doctors and there doctors are more than capable of commenting on whether they're light weight has become negatievly impactful on their health just like you wouldn't want them assuming you're obese just because you're fat.


2) You aren't a psychologist...not every skinny girl hates herself.


Just because every female character on degrassi suffered from bulemia doesn't mean emotionally damaged skinny girls is a norm. Many skinny girls have amazing genetics, literally just want to look fit (crazy idea huh?) or maybe actually want want to be fit and so they exercise a lot and eat only the healthiest stuff at the right portions. When did it become such a sin for girls to want to look cute and why is it that people seem to think girls only want to look cute for the benefit of men? Beauty has long since been a sourse of pride for a woman herself regardless of who gets to appreciate it besides her. I think the narrative that skinny girls mainly do it to be noticed by guys to be too simple and mostly not true. And, let's say she does want to. Does that mean she hates herself because she wants to be more attractive to men? Guys pretend to like the gym I would say about 20% in the gym actually and do an the other 80% are lowkey trying to look hot and ripped. It's very natural and a part of why procreation is able to happen in this day and age that people put effort into their appearances. Just have a degree before you diagnose something like this.


3) Conversely, you don't know if she has a mental/psychological condition.


And maybe she does have some condition that makes her feel fat when she's not. You used to look at that with sympathy but now you just make her feel worse about it. You want people to understand when emotionally you can't make a change or if you have a disease making you the weight you are but you not only have no sympathy for skinniness but you also act like they're faking it. Perfection and happiness are states that exist only within our own minds and these girls will probably never ever achieve it because they believe they are inherently not worthy of it and so project inadequacies onto themselves which feel very much as real as if they were.


4) Yes all men loves curves for SOMETHING but most men lowkey suffer from a madonna whore complex which divides skinny girls into the girlfriend catagory and thick girls into the sex catagory. I've seen time and time again.


It's crazy to me the in fighting within the gender when men are still the ones with something to learn in terms of not boxing women in terms of their body types. The fact that all men want curves and all men want skinny girls is actually kind of true but for what is the question. I think the grass is always greener and so not so skinny girls have pounced on the fact that real men sometimes find pencil shaped girls less sexy even those are the girls they date and so have used to that make skinny girls feel like they don't look like women. Clever? Yes. Moral? Probabaly not.


5) All Bodies are beautiful but then you shame girls who are much skinnier than you?


Just throwing your own logic back in your face. You say look I'm beautiful. All bodies are! Then turn around and thorw shade at a skinny girl and call her fake and having bug bite boobs and no ass and no hips and nothign to grab onto so how exactly do you believe all bodies arebeaituful but yet skinny girls bodies are problems? Basically what I see as a man looking on it from the outside is--two groups fighting to say "I'm what a real woman looks like!" Here's what i think not so skinny girls don't get though--skinny girls I feel for the most part would rather have the love and respect of their fellow ladies (notice how many "super hot girls" have a fat best friend a la marnie and hanna) instead of the lust and attraction of guys (which they take heavily for granted because they've never existed in a world without it) As such, not so skinny girls can see that skinny girls aren't taking male attention maliciously in general. So my solution--not so skinny women enjoy the fact that you're becoming the new ideal as the woman you have sex with and the woman you marry begin to fuse into one and enjoy the fact that your natural body type now gets a lot of male attention WITHOUT using said male attention to hurt skinny girl's feelings. Also, to cap this off in the most corny way possiblel, the only person who can decide if you're a real woman is you. We met just like to pretend it's us who decides so we can get you to do naughty stuff.

One Brave Man Standing in Front of a Bunch of Fat Girls Asking Them To Stop Skinny Shaming
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