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So there's this guy Thomas whom I've known for a while who's made it very clear that he wants to sleep with me. He's flirted with me and he's sent pics. Most of the time it's all he thinks about when talking to me. We haven't seen each other in a while
but the last time we did last year I asked him where we stand and he referred to his nonexistent feelings for me using a soda analogy but this year he's surprisingly been a lot nicer to me, well even back then when he took me to a park he held my hand twice when helping me walk over a hill and again in the car that very same day so I'm getting mixed signals here.. I'll still never forget the minute he first saw me he smiled big, not even my ex boyfriend looked that excited to meet me which is funny considering the fact that I never officially dated this guy.

He's said before that he doesn't get jealous yet he asked me who I was talking to when I sent him a screenshot of a conversation and said he wanted to be my only "fuck buddy"

He always tells me he's complicated but he never tells me what he actually means..

And now he's not talking to me at all

I got a text from his Kik account saying he sold his phone but I'm not buying it I think it's bs

I'm bad at picking up signals so I don't automatically think of flirting and also I have a boyfriend so that wasn't in my mindset.

I was in the free weight section doing some bench pressing on the smith machine and was recording my progress as I didn't have my regular gym buddy to spot me.
This one dude who was a personal trainer and had been there for a while smiled at me whilst I was working out and was going around cleaning the equipment.
He noticed I was recording and tried to go round my phone so he wasn't in the shot. I made a little joke and said I was done. Then he ended up having a conversation with me for a good hour.
I noticed when we talking about good posture and form that he looked at me up and down then said "yeah... you definitely got form"

After he said if I ever want any advice on any "excerises he would be happy to help."

I told my boyfriend after my session at the gym and said that yeah he was definitely flirting with you.

Do you think this is true or was the trainer just being friendly? 🤔

by the way this was my outfit...

This is kind of a turn off for me. People that are friendly and flirt, even though they’re in a relationship. Even if it’s “harmless”, it’s a red flag. You could be giving mixed signals to this person that you’re doing the “harmless flirting” with. My own father is like this, he was good to my mother but still flirted with women and checked women out. If you’re TAKEN you shouldn’t be doing this