Search Results: muscular or athletic

I'm 27 and if you ask me whether I had any relationship ill have to say I haven't been. And to friends this makes me a gay... But I don't give a shit
I've tried many times but ends up that when having conversation with girls I run out of topic too quickly.. 2 questions and if she give a direct answers and no questions in return I'm out... I don't have anything to ask.. I don't have anything to just speak about. Is it just me?
I know I'm not gifted in any aspect... Not beauty.. Not muscular... And don't have the capability to hit the right chord... But I'm athletic knows and am good in many sports.. Educated..
So here's my question... How to hit the right chord... To make the conversation interesting for the other gender as well...
And I'd like to know whether it's just me having this kind of situation 😬

Reminder: the pictures are JUST examples. You are NOT voting on which picture has the hottest guys. :-P

I may write separate questions on how you like checking out guys who are casually dressed or undressed. This question is about how you like guys who've been incentivized to dress a certain way. (Though you could take a loophole. If you like boxing matches because muscular guys are wearing nothing but shorts for you, check the "athletic events" option.)

Remember also that each option has quite a range.

Athletic events could be anything from a swim meet to a skiing competition. Most common examples would probably be track & field.

Business and work events could be anything from construction workers on projects to soldiers in uniform for ceremonies. Most common examples would be sales presentations with guys in business suits.

Club nights and concerts could be anything from grunge rock to opera. Most common example might be a mainstream club on a big night. (Note that this option applies if your preference is for the male ticketholders, not the performers.)

Costume events could be Halloween parties (of course), theater, or distinctive performance art. (In this case, applies if your preference is for costumed men in attendance OR for the performers.)

Comments with specifics or alternatives are welcome, of course!

I am a skinny guy and I don't have a great body. I mean I am not anorexic or rail thin, but I am on the thinner side and don't have a lot of muscle (though I have some of course). But for some reason I only get approached and get stares from girls who are either slim or fit and athletic (even those who are 100 times more athletic and sporty than me). I know most guys are attracted to these girls but not me. I am attracted to curvier girls.

I don't think many guys share such a preference like me, but why do I never get any looks from these girls? They don't look at me even if I stare at them, like I am invisible to them. At the same time I don't even need to do anything to get looks from thin and athletic girls and I even get approached by them! What a paradox, those girls who are considered hotter think I am good looking while those girls who don't get much love don't even see me!

Why are curvy girls not interested in me? Do they prefer fatter guys or guys who are more muscular? I know it's shallow to reject fit girls just because they are fit but I can't help who I am attracted to.