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In middle school I was bullied into depression, the kids at my school always told me I was ugly/ weird and I was fat and disgusting. And I was lame because I loved reading and writing and I didn't like the same things the other kids did. I was mostly disliked due to how I looked and my love for writing. But I wanted to feel good about myself and stop the kids from being rude to me all the time. I was a nice person and didn't talk much so most people either saw me ugly or silent.

In middle school I lost weight and got braces.

In high school I started to wear makeup and dress with more style.

But I'm still worried that the kids at my new high school will hate me like the kids in my middle schools did. Due to how I looked and the things I like. I know it's dumb to say stop caring about what people say, but at my school people don't choose friends, they let society choose for them. So if a girl is called a slut her friends would leave her and find a person people talk better about. I had people stalk me and tell others where I lived for Pete's sake!

I recently lost 100 lbs so I've never dated before, and he just lost 175 lbs and has also never dated anyone before. So we're both prude/virgins who are trying to start mingling with the real world. We have a lot in common other than the weight loss too. We both love punk music (he plays drums for a local punk band in our area) and we love a lot of the same tv shows and we have the same sense of humor.& We both smoke pot and cigarettes. And I don't know, he seems like he genuinely likes me. So is it weird because of our age difference?