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I freaking hate my family, especially my stepdad (my brother's dad). He is so extremely backwoods in his behavior that even the most conservative Republicans I know can't stand his butt. Also my mom is a know-it-all type of person with a Trump-like attitude and yells/calls my brother names like fat, slob/sloppy, eating like a wopple (?), telling him he'll cry when he's an adult, in the hospital, etc etc.; not allowing him to enjoy his freedom to eat whatever/whenever he wants. I'm not encouraging him to get fat, but I wonder why the same abuse/power isn't used against skinny people?

My mom is an abusive idiot and crap like this is why my mom and my stepdad don't have friends that are parents of my brother's friends; they don't like their attitude. I am worried my brother will go do something crazy, even crazier than I have ever done in high school. I'm worried he'll one day go start a rampage at a concert or a church or a school and hurt somebody because of the attitudes our very conservative family members infiltrated on him. My mom has a gun too.

I'm sobbing as I've wrote this post. I don't want my brother to turn into another EH, DK, AL, or DR.

I'm 21, my brother is 10, and both parents are in their 40s.

My stepdad is so cruel to his son's environment that even some of his conservative peers can't stand him. My halfbrother is neither gay nor bisexual, but his father tends to act highly offended whenever the word "gay," "bisexual," or "queer" is audible in the video in a non-derogatory way. My brother is allowed to watch videos on YouTube and TikTok, but he gets reprimanded if he doesn't change the channel if he accidentally watches a video that contains those words or any swear words.

This is so freaking odd because my stepdad at least tolerates my mom's gay black friend. He was even on our HBO accounts list. If so, why does my stepdad continue to be homophobic? Even my mom said DaBaby was "homophobic" while at the dinner table, and my stepdad said that DaBaby was ignorant about how gay people go through. But ever since a while later on vacation when he heard "bisexual" on a TikTok, my stepdad told my brother to change the video.

My stepdad is racist too (but he denied it every time I called him out; I no longer call him out because I don't want to get disowned or anything), loves to make fun of poor black and brown people's struggles and uses the N-word with a hard er, which is why my brother says it a lot. They both call black people monkeys and thugs and gang members, and they also really freaking hate Asians more than anyone. Asians (especially the Chinese) are their worst enemy, 10,000x worse than Blacks. My Armenian stepdad at least tolerates Black people and their opinions, but he doesn't like to get close to a Chinese person.

My stepdad grew up in a really rich household to be honest, but he got sued and bankrupt from his first business when he was discriminating against people of color. His personality is identical to, or worse than, that of Donald Trump's. His countless number of lawsuits have made him and his family broke. He let his own dad die in 2001 without even fundraisers. And he pretends he never disrespected his family. Kiss my ass.