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In all honesty, I absolutely cannot stand dealing with a man who is overly sensitive and overly emotional. Generally, I don’t like dealing with people who have that personality trait at all, but when it’s a man it especially gets on my nerves. I don’t mean to sound harsh but I am a grown adult and having to consistently coddle another grown adult is so annoying particularly if we’re trying to get sh*t done. I just feel like once you pass a certain age, you should have a larger emotional capacity and even if you don’t, others shouldn’t have to commit excessive energy, effort, and time trying to aid you in the fact that you can’t seem to get your sh*t together. Don’t get me wrong! I am all for being someone’s free therapist and helping people work through their problems. Yet if it’s to a point where there are problems EVERY SINGLE DAY simply because of their personality and inability to suck it up and take their emotions out of certain situations: I have little to zero tolerance.

If there’s a man in my life who fits this description, I am immediately turned off and I tend to start viewing him more as a little brother and not as a grown a** man who should be highly respected. I find it difficult to view these types of men with honor, seeing as they adopt the behavior of children and teenagers -_- Is it just me? Ladies, do you agree? What’s the best way to deal with these types of men?