Why do girls tan their skin among other things? Girls stop wearing your westernized burka.

[sidewaysphone]

Girls you need to understand genetics are a very specific thing. Under most circumstances guys will be most attracted to a set of specific genetic traits that match their DNA pattern.

1. Tanning Skin - If you have pale skin do not tan your skin. My number one turn on is a very specific skin tone that is similar to mine. Whatever your natural skin tone is you will have a propensity towards.

2. Fake color contacts - Do not use fake color contact lenses. For example i have blue/grey eyes, if i were to find out later on that you never had that eye color to begin with i automatically have a feeling of deceit and betrayal. You cannot lie your way into things that were never meant to be, this from day one creates an unstable relationship. Similar eye color is one of the most powerful genetic magnets for attraction.

3. Eye Liner - Do not use black eye liner/eye lash color.
The eye liner represents aggressiveness, guys are uncomfortable the moment they see dark eye liner whether they realize it or not. Its not natural and it promotes a subconscious feeling where the guy will not want to look you directly in the eyes.
He will try to force himself to look you directly in the eyes but it will create aggressiveness and uneasiness.

4. Hair color - Why in the world would you die your hair color to an unnatural state, get into a relationship, and then 6 months later want your original color back. What type of paranoia/insecurity are you going to feel if you all of a sudden change back from blond to dark dark brown?

4. High heels - I understand none of you will take this advice lol but try and not wear high heels that make you 3 inches taller. I know this plea is worthless

5. Breast implants are for people who might have had their breast tissue removed because of cancer, not because you want your b cup to be a d cup. Never get ass implants, never do facial augmentation for cosmetic reasons when there was no injury.

You trying to look like a perfect barbie that you were programmed to look like during your childhood is called Monarch programming, you are literately no better then a female who is forced to wear a burka in public. The female says she likes to wear the burka because its a mask to hide behind much like all of your cosmetic product you use.

Please care to explain why you think things like eye liner are attractive, and no it does not make your eyes bigger. Eat some Omega 3 DHA essential fatty acid if you want your eyes to be full. You retina is made from it.

Do not call me racist because of the skin tone argument, whatever skin tone you have stick with it. If you follow these cosmetic tips life will be a lot easier for both genders. This post was not about "personality, intellect or heart" so just stay on topic and let me know what you think.

[aamy811]

You said don't call me a racist, but your comment is kind of racist. People joules let their skin look however they want to, whether pale, tan, dark, etc. and mixing I races is great we shouldn't just keep to our own color because mingling and mixing only makes the world a better place.
Now with telling girls not to change their hair, are you crazy. I hate when Gus say why would you change your hair or eye color, do you hate yourself? NO, maybe I think of my hair like my clothes and change them whenever I wasn't a new style or look.
With the eyeliner and heels you have to be kidding me. When I get dressed every morning and think "what can make the male gender feel better about themselves and not squish SOME of their over prejudice penises". Yeah right, I'll wear what I want when I want because I get dressed for me, not for you. And I'm sorry if it's so hard for you to understand that your not everyone's sun, moon and stars.
This article pusses me the fuck off it people like this that give girls self image and self expression problems.
Also plastic surgery is for who ever the hell wants plastic surgery. It's made to give Poole control over their own bodies (which you obviously don't understand because you don't get how some women don't want to be your ideal). But if there's something I want to change, FOR ME then I have the right to do so!

[koko124]

"You said don't call me a racist, but your comment is kind of racist. People joules let their skin look however they want to, whether pale, tan, dark, etc."

Then how come everyone's okay with tanning, but loses their shit when dark skinned women try to lighten their skin? Is it maybe because we all know deep down that one of those skin tones is more sought after?

[aamy811]

Well it depends on the place and what you personally find attractive. Just like with getting plastic surgery or augmentation, it's not always what other think you should do; but as long as they want to thy should do why they want. So maybe culturally pale skin is considered best, but if you don't like it and want to tan that's perfectly fine

[aamy811]

@koko124 ^^^

[lordAlex818]

Dafuq dude? All you wrote here is 'don't do what you like to do, do what I want you to do'

[Hannah591]

I don't know where you got the information about eye liner. I wear eyeliner and it if it makes me look aggressive/fierce, good. I'm not trying to impress anyone and I don't want people to think I can be messed with. When I wear eyeliner, everyone can look me in the eye, including my boyfriend. We know it doesn't make our eyes bigger.

#4 (the hair colour one, not the #4 high heel one) is absolutely terrible. I've been dark brown, blonde and now red during the two years I've been with my boyfriend. If I want to change my hair colour, I will and I don't see why you think that'd cause paranoia/insecurity.

I will do whatever I want to my body and I will wear what I want. I know you want to make us not dress like barbie dolls but wearing eyeliner and tanning is hardly making yourself look like barbie. You could've approached this take a lot better. With some research, you'd know most muslims aren't forced to wear the burka just like we're not forced to wear make-up. I don't dress like a barbie doll and I'm happy to go out without make up. This is all based on your preferences, which you can have but that doesn't mean you should try to force every girl to fit to those preferences. No girl who reads this will take this in.

Another bad take that should never have been promoted.

[Applefan1]

1. So just because a "very specific skin tone" is what turns you on, that means all girls are not aloud to tan? I admit I think some girls are too tanned and too tanned is not attractive to me but that is the girls decision not mine. If I was ever telling a girl not to tan it would only be from the fact I would not want to see her get melanomas or other skin cancers. I would not try and force a girl to not tan just for my own personal reasons.

2. Do you seriously think most girls that are wearing fake colour eye contacts are trying to lie their way into things? The fact you would feel deceit and betrayal says more about you than it does the girl. If something as small as a woman wearing fake colour eye contacts causes an unstable relationship then the relationship was never going to work in the first place. Have you ever thought that maybe women want to wear them so the colour of their eyes suits the outfit they are wearing?

3. Why do you think you have the right to tell women what colour eye make up they could be wearing. You don't. I agree I don't like make up that is over done but I don't tell women they can't wear their make up like that if the want to. I actually think anyone that comments on a woman's make up like that is just plain rude end of story.

4. Hardly any women at all would dye their hair just to get into a relationship and then when they have the guy committed go back to their natural hair colour. Women dye their hair all the time and the reason is because they want to try something different and there is nothing wrong with that. It is not about paranoia and insecurity with most women. Also the way you word this makes it sound like all blondes are better people than people with dark dark brown hair and that is not true. What makes a person a good person is how they treat others not their hair colour. It is a woman's right to change her hair colour if she wants just like it is her right to not never change her hair colour to.

[Applefan1]

High heals, so women have to get your approval of any shoes they wear before they wear them incase you don't like them? Come on women are aloud to wear any shoes they want to.

5. This is one I do agree with you on. I would strongly advise women to not get breast implants because they don't last and can cause health problems. It was only just recently I think that some breast implants have been leaking inside women and that is extremely dangerous. They are not worth it in my opinion.

You need to change your attitude towards women. They are humans not an object you can control, not object that you press a button on a remote and they behave a certain way. Also you should have left the Burka out of this. The women that wear Burka's are simply following their religious beliefs and good on them. Your in danger of cause offence there.

[Applefan1]

One last thing women just like men don't base every single thing they every say or do on turning the opposite gender on and they shouldn't either. Both men and women should not change who they are as people or how they dress to turn on or attract the opposite gender. People are who they are and they should be accepted for that. You need to change you attitude towards women.

[xXiTacoXx]

*Writes down a check list*
1) Don't get tan it's unnatural *Check* I'm already darker than tan so no worries with that one and for me to be tan I'd have to resort to skin bleaching. So nope. P:
2) No coloured contacts. *Check* Don't own any at the moment.
3) No eyeliner *Leaves it blank* Damn it, I've already got 3 sticks.
5) No high heels. *Leaves it blank* I own a bunch because I'm 5'1" (155 cm) and short as hell.
4) No hair dye. *Leaves it blank* I want to dye my afro hot pink so nope to this.
6) No breast implants because I want to go from a 34C to a 34D *Check* Too broke to afford it.

Aw, and sorry I failed because there are things that can't be helped because of either genetics or I like what I have and wear what I have for myself just like most women do. A person shouldn't change their tastes to suit what you like or it'll make them miserable. It's inefficient and a pain in the ass.

[sidewaysphone]

Thats perfectly fine do whatever your heart desires. I hope men start wearing makeup and see how you like it.

[HayHay93]

@Take Owner, Some men do wear eye liner and make up :) just saying. And my statement still is valid. If someone wants to wear make up or whatever they can. No one has the right to tell them they can't. Just like someone can't tell them that they should.

[xXiTacoXx]

@Take Owner www.hdwallpapersinn.com/.../374740.jpg This is Gackt Camui one of my favorite j-rockers and all around hottie with or without makeup, but I think he looks so sexy with it on. Oh, he also wears coloured contacts.

[Kris85]

I tan in tanning beds, I highlight my hair blonder than it already is, I wear makeup, black eye liner, and even fake lashes sometimes. I rarely wear heels because I am tall enough as it is but I do all this because I want to and if you like natural looking girls, all power to you. I like being girly and using the resources we have to experiment and try new looks and I have never had any complaints over it. This take is all just your preferences , not everybody else's. We will continue to do what we want, and you can continue to do what you want.

[sidewaysphone]

"being girly" wtf does putting chemicals on your face, in your hair, inside your body have to do with "being girly". Being girly is using your human body that was forged over millions of years. You telling me putting on some eye liner is actually perfecting your body?

Im amazed at how defensive you all are.

And guess what, its because you are all scared to stop using it. This is the fact, like i said the western bukra. Women get so used to wearing that black sheet over their face they even wear it when its not the law. There is no way in hell over 90% of women do these things in the list because they want to, i just hope they dont push some other weird shit onto you girls.

[Kris85]

Makeup has been around for centuries. It's not a new thing. And we aren't defensive, you're the one cutting everyone down that doesn't for your "ideal" woman and we can say what we want, just like you can. Good for you, instead of bitching about it on here, go out and find a girl like that then. Don't worry about what the rest of us do with our face and bodies.

[Kris85]

*fit*

[sidewaysphone]

This is not for you in particular i just can't post anywhere else

Im just saying like for example when winter turns to spring/summer you might have hesitation to not wear a coat outside anymore. It feels weird to not have a coat on, you feel a bit insecure for a few days, but as long as everyone is doing it then you start to not even think about it.

Meanwhile there is no seasonal change in what i was talking about above its 365 days a year, and now you have the Music industry pushing over sized silicone asses. lmao Guess what girls you better get working on that ass every day or your going to be singled out!!!

nicki minaj and iggy azalea are terrible music artists, her recent music video had her as hitler/dictator and the other rappers represented as the other forms of information control. The nazi soilders in the video animation were the viewers on YouTube who go around saying these idiots are good artists. Nicki knows dam well her music is garbage.

to be continued...

[sidewaysphone]

Not saying a healthy butt isn't attractive on a female/male but they are pushing the mega oversize ridiculous ass to see how much control they have over the population. If you take anything from this debate please understand that point. Do not listen to these people.

[Kris85]

Well my ass may be big but it ain't that big and I never want it to be so I'm not worried about the media "pushing" that on me.

[HayHay93]

I do most of those things because I want too. Not because I'm trying to be a barbie. I like dressing up and changing my hair. Its fun. And I love how I look. I also wear eyeliner. Lots of it. And my boyfriend has no problem looking into my eyes. I also have dyed my hair. Because again I wanted to. I've worn colored contacts because I want too. I've tanned because Iiiiiii want to. I've worn heels because I want to. The point is if I want to do something to my appearance I will. Its my body. Just because you like "Natural" doesn't mean every woman has to stop doing what they're doing. And how is this scientific? Where are your sources? And I like wearing this stuff. That is my answer. You cannot discredit it just because you think women are brainwashed. We're not. My answer is valid. Because I do what I want. Whether it pleases the opposite sex or not. They have their preference and I have mine. :)

[HayHay93]

Bet I know who the down votes from :p

[MaskedSanity]

This is just a list of bullshit expectations based on YOUR PERSONAL tastes.

Your advice is bad and you should feel bad. Cry me a river, build a bridge and get over it. And yourself, mostly yourself.

Inb4: I'ms jus trying to ssplain der science to yuz sheep morons!!1!

[BuchitaBuchys]

Lmao this is why you're one of my favorite users here! :)

[xHoneyxBeex]

Lol wow. If I want to tan, I will. If I want to change my hair color, I will. If I want to wear eyeliner, I will. etc. If you are not attracted to these things, then you are free to approach girls who don't do them but you have no right to tell other women what they can and cannot do. I have a mind of my own and I can wear makeup if I want to and dress the way I want to, my life does not revolve around the likes and dislikes of you or any other man.

[xHoneyxBeex]

First of all, I'm not a "moron," far from it actually. Second of all, you didn't give any actual facts, you provided no credible sources for anything you said, it's all just your personal opinion. Third, just because someone disagrees with you doesn't mean they are "brainwashed."

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

1. Seeing how Im naturally brown and it's a genetic thing that Im obligated and can't help but want to sit in the sun to get my vitamin D. So far as I know I'll just get darker.
2. I thought about getting colored contacts like lavender or green. Maybe even just some weird ones for Halloween . Unfortunately contacts scare me bc my friends mom had accidently gotten hers stuck in her eye. It looked painful and scary. Not to mention there's the horror stories about the solutions not cleaning the contacts and irritating the eye.
3. I dont wear eye liner.
4. I love high heels and will never give them up! Neva! Do you hear me! Lol.
5. Breast implants. Are a whatever. I used to think about them but they keep climbing in price so I just learned to love my cup size.

[playdatesx]

This is all based on your own preferences. Not all people like to be "natural" anyway. The only things I personally do on your list, is wear makeup and high heels. This doesn't affect anything. My makeup is very natural looking (enhances my natural features) and I'm 5'2, so heels on me does not intimidate anyone or anything.

Clearly, you're just one of those opinionated "natural" freaks. Just let everyone be. Beauty is not defined by a single person, nor can you tell people they are ugly just because they don't fit in your criteria.

[ElijahWolf]

The only thing I agree with pn this list (TakeOwner's list) is high heels one since they can ruin your posture

[MysteriousFlower]

1. You forgot to mention tanning can cause cancer, so I don't take the risk and even spray tan is not good it can dry out the skin.

2. I think artistically inclined girls wear contacts, I don't know why people wear them.

3. You heard of a smokey eye? Eyeliner can represent sexiness when used right.

4. Hair colour should be least of people worries. Crazy colours that doesn't suit skin tone is tacky, but going a few shades darker/lighter is fine.

4 (High Heels). I don't wear them.

5. Cosmetic surgery is the worst thing to alter appearance, we all have imperfections!.

[ShaeNielson]

All I see here is some sorry ass guy judging women. We do all those things to feel and look good, and who are you to say it's ugly? I respect your taste, but then go find some girl who naturally is like that, don't force it on the rest of us.

[Anonymous]

Statement 1: Agreed
Statement 2: Does create deception but I wouldn't be mad about it
Statement 3: A little is okay although prefer none
Statement 4: Completely disagree. I like when my girl changes her hair.
Statement 4?: Short heels are fine, show off a girl's legs. Only 3 inches difference between me and my girl so she can't wear tall heels
Statement 5: Girls have every right to change their boobs, I'm comfortable but only after she's had children because it would raise her self esteem.

Girls don't live to please you, dude. Although they do, do a lot of things in order to please guys when they don't realise guys don't like most of the stuff they do.

[Anonymous]

I really don't tan. I used to but not anymore.
I just wear normal contacts, but I see nothing wrong with people who wear coloured.
Eyeliner is the only makeup I do wear if I wear any. Maybe mascara. I always get compliments and from MEN when I do wear it. Why is that? Especially when men claim they hate makeup.
I don't wear high heels all the time, but I love the way they make my legs look. I have a nice collection of them.
I would never get breast implants, I have nice ones myself but I don't look down on my fellow ladies who do get them.

[Anonymous]

I have blue eyes myself and the thing I'm most attracted to in a girl is a pair of warm, dark brown eyes. I also don't care about the skin tone at all, although I do think the obsession with tanning is unhealthy. Implants I'm not crazy about, but if a girl is so insecure that it will make her feel better, then why not...

[lumos]

Why do you care so much? Just let us girls dye our hair, do our makeup, wear our clothes the way WE want to. The world does not revolve around you and your likes/dislikes, dude. If you like girls to be a certain way, then go after the girls who are already naturally like that. Don't force other girls to change just because it doesn't fit your particular taste.
Also, we can't please EVERYONE. I'm sure that a lot of guys out there disagree with you on some of those points.

[lumos]

Science? More like your own subjective opinion that's purely based on YOUR own tastes.

[HayHay93]

No need to be rude @TakeOwner. You need to chill out. You asked for opinions. Don't get mad when people disagree. :)

[lumos]

Also, the girl in the picture you posted is wearing eyeliner. Lol.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Or, maybe you could let people make their own decisions on how they want to look. I don't understand how the philosophy of "don't let society dictate what you wear" and "wear what I personally think you should wear" are any different?

[sidewaysphone]

Im dictating the laws of nature. Im explaining to you sheep what the laws of nature are. The laws of nature never included all the things i listed above, humans managed to find themselves attractive for hundreds of thousands of years, without chemical products, its only now the brain washing has taken ahold.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Your are wrong from a historical perspective. Humans have been beautifying their bodies for thousands of years

[JackKerouac77]

Exactly. A good place to start is the ancient Egyptians, who were freaking obsessed with appearance.

[miserybusiness]

Sometimes I wonder if GaG purposely promotes controversial takes to get views/comments

I can understand the irritability with tanned skin and I've heard the cosmetic surgery argument dozens of times (though I disagree with it), but the eyeliner, contact and high heel points... really? You'd feel betrayed if her eye colour was different? Her eye colour is THAT important? LOLLL don't you think you're being unnecessarily nitpicky?

[BelleGirl21]

1. I don't tan for health reasons
2. I get a whole lot of compliments on my green contacts.
3. If a guy is so insecure that he can't go up against eye liner then he isn't the man for me
4. You can pry my high heels of my cold dead feet
5. Not all women have been blessed with perfect breasts like my own... I say to each girl her own. That's a pretty personal decision.
You need to work on your confidence my friend.

[Moon_Tear]

Honestly from a personally perspective I don't really agree with the whole tips, everyone has different interests and turn ons/clicks so i don't think he/she should or need to concentrate on skin, contacts, enhancing body features "eg boobs, eyes etc" as it won't always work besides and honestly it's never really great to tell an individual what to do to their body of they don't want to or if they don't have interest in doing that so don't worry as everyone has different interests/perspective

[Annmasaurus]

Blahh each to their own i dont do any of the things on the list except wear eyeliner which it appears the majority of other girls also do i do it as i feel it 'frames my eyes' and as they are i would say my best feature i like to draw attention towards them and away from say my more unattractive features, and tbh if i could i would have breast implants as im not happy with my breasts but that is for my own self confidence