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I have been with my ex for over four years, we broke up two years ago and remained lovers. I mean we still continueds sleeping together every night, in the same bed continuing on like we didn't split. He began sleeping with females, and I had to accept it and it was hard. I hated that he started dating so fast. Meanwhile still got me on the side. At a point i didn't care because I was willing to fight for my family. I have two cgildren and he has be and actuve father figure since they were 3 and six months old. My children are 5&7 now. My family was great, but our trust and financial hardships split us up. He has had teins with one of gis flings nd it took me a year. to live with the thought i was depressed for so long. How could some women he barly even knows, slept wuth with twice, have his babies before me? His first children are with a stranger. I have been fughting for him for two years now and he comes and gos and play this hard ball victim game. And i wind up feeling everything that happened with us is all my fault? I have been talking to him about becoming one again, he daid yes when i stopped talking to him for a few months, but nothing changed. So i decided to go back on tbe market for a friend nothing serious because its been four years and i have only been. with my ex. Iam ready to date now, i gound a friend and i like him but i dont want anything serious or nothing. But as soon as my ex heard. i was dating someone he comes throwing a fit, tslning about he wants me back. I love this man i love his heart, his brain, his scent, everything. This man is my back bone and he loves me but he is so prideful and for once. I feel like he needs to fight for me. So what should i do? Should i allow him back? How do i know he will not switch up again?

so I met this guy online on a dating website in February this year. We met for the first time in May. He's from another state so he lives 5 hours away. So the first time we met we clicked instantly. We got compliments from strangers that we make a pretty couple and all. Then 2 days ago it was my bday so he drove to see me and he wanted to take me out for my bday and make me feel special. Honestly it was the best time I ever had and he really made it special we drove around went to eat at a very fancy place and all. actually he's the first guy i am dating. So since I just turned 25 I told him this is so special I never really celebrated my bday with any guy before and we had a moment and he wanted to kiss me and we did and out of no where I guess I was running very high on emotions I said you better be the one. Then he kinda brushes my hair and acts distant for bit then we both drove to his hotel and we went to his room. I was a bit not comfortable going to his room because I have never done anything with any guy before. So then he goes trust me I won't do anything then we sat in his room and we were talking on the bed and we got a bit comfortable and we started to fool around. Then We made out and I asked him where is this going he stops and acts a bit distant again and I asked him what happened he goes he cannot commit to me until December I was like what why? He goes because I want you to lose weight and show me. this is when it got rough and scary I was like wtf and I got very upset he goes look u need to lose a bit of weight I want us both to look good together. I was like then why did u bullshit me in the beginning saying he likes me the way I am and doesn't want me to change and we have been talking for almost 5 months now. He goes yeah well you need to lose weight I got really upset and I wanted to cry he didn't say a single word I walk out of his room and he walks me to my car and then on my way home I texted him saying thanks for the dinner. He said he's so