Do I have a problem?

[Anonymous]

Over the last few years, i've had various crushes on people and i'm worried that i take my infatuation too far. When i have a crush on someone, i then imagine what it's like to be in a relationship with them and I think what it would be like if they were with me at that moment. This also applies to when i go to sleep at night: I lay in my bed and imagine that they are laying next to me and i depict a conversation with them in my head. Not all of these crushes are people i actually know; sometimes they're strangers that i found myself attracted to. I'm getting really worried that this is affecting my mental state and i just wanted to get some opinions on this. Do i have a problem and if so, how messed up is it?

[Samireos22]

It's always okay to have a little imagination over time once you find someone who actually makes you happy, someone that you're really with, this will fade away.

[OlderAndWiser]

You need to be having real relationships instead of fantasies. If your fantasy life interferes with relationships IRL, then it's a problem.

[BertMacklinFBI]

taking it too far can develop bad habits that will affect your dating life and confidence. I would work on containing this

[Anonymous]

I think its actually normal. Not for random people, but your crushes. Try to control it abit