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Ok get this. My boyfriend ghosts me and then tries to break up with me through one of my friends let's call her Sally. Sally sent him a long message of what he was doing wasn't okay. He ghosted me for 2 days!!! And my other friend Melly also messaged him a bunch of times. I was worried sick about him. I tried reaching out to his mom, his mom blocked me on fb (him and I are long distance we met on vrchat) come to find out he was active on vrchat for 2 days straight cheating on me. Anyways, my other friend Jenna got wind of what was going on and after the breakup my boyfriend messages her. Asking "how's the girly doing?" Referring to me! My other friends blocked him and deleted him of discord. But Jenna kept him as a friend.
My friend Jenna has a discord server of her own, and she was inviting which only seemed only men in it. My friend Mellys boyfriend was invited to it, but she wasn't. My friend told her boyfriend of what was happening and how she was only inviting men in it and her boyfriend was like "oh that's weird" so he left. He didn't realize none of us were invited. SHE THEN INVITES MY EX boyfriend TO HER SERVER. AND NONE OF US WERE INVITED. My friend Melly was pissed and confessed she never liked Jenna. My friend melly is plus sized and her boyfriend loves her so much. You can tell by the way he interacts and treats her that he loves her. Anyways, Jenna confessed she never liked Melly. So it was a mutual thing. Jenna would always try to get close to Melly and Melly had an off feeling. Now I see where she was coming from. Jenna is a total pick me.
Jenna claimed to be a girls girl but would be ràcist and hom0phobic but was also "genderfluid". She complained no women were in her discord server but didn't invite me or the other females she knew to it. Which I thought was fucking odd. Cause I am one of her "good friends" lol. Anyways, she put in her discord status "I trip fat bitches" in regards to Melly after her boyfriend left her discord server.
My friend Jenna has a discord server of her own, and she was inviting which only seemed only men in it. My friend Mellys boyfriend was invited to it, but she wasn't. My friend told her boyfriend of what was happening and how she was only inviting men in it and her boyfriend was like "oh that's weird" so he left. He didn't realize none of us were invited. SHE THEN INVITES MY EX boyfriend TO HER SERVER. AND NONE OF US WERE INVITED. My friend Melly was pissed and confessed she never liked Jenna. My friend melly is plus sized and her boyfriend loves her so much. You can tell by the way he interacts and treats her that he loves her. Anyways, Jenna confessed she never liked Melly. So it was a mutual thing. Jenna would always try to get close to Melly and Melly had an off feeling. Now I see where she was coming from. Jenna is a total pick me.
Jenna claimed to be a girls girl but would be ràcist and hom0phobic but was also "genderfluid". She complained no women were in her discord server but didn't invite me or the other females she knew to it. Which I thought was fucking odd. Cause I am one of her "good friends" lol. Anyways, she put in her discord status "I trip fat bitches" in regards to Melly after her boyfriend left her discord server.
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Also wanted to add that Jenna called us DRAMA when she literally caused it all. Whenever someone would post in my server she would "jokingly" insult them. But it was straight insults. And her and 2 other dudes did it.
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Geez.. You are in your late 20's complaining about internet drama. It's not real life it's the internet.. he is a loser if he can't stay loyal and you all sound annoying and immature with buzz words.. Pick me, girls girl, genderfluid.. God so cringy. And are any of these people your friends in real life or is this all just internet relations? If you don't even know them in real life that makes this all the more cringy. You do not have to deal with people you don't know in real life, block them..
Well female intra sex competition is ruthless and this seems to be a good case of it.
I can tell you that when one girl has a problem with another, the first thing they seem to think of is to rope guys into it. They are so sweet & attentive to you even when you are the boyfriend of the target girl. The whole game plan is to socially isolate the target girl and pulling her boyfriend away is a nice shot I guess.
Can't tell you the number of times that a girl has told me stories about another girl that proves she is a slut. It nearly always ends with 'What do think of her now?'.
I could understand Jenna deciding to socially exclude Melly. That is standard girl business. You only mention Sally Melly (and yourself) though she has excluded all the girls from her discord server.
I suppose her power play is having all the guys like her.
Wholly drama batman? People need to adult more soap opera less. Time to take a look at yourself and the people who are on your life and why you like them. Secondly sounds like bullet dodged with the boyfriend. Man up break up yourself, no one convinces you to break up it's a decision you make. Some people just need to have a reason. You friends his friends girls that want him dudes that want him... whatever. No one can steal anyone who doesn't want to go.