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I posted earlier one option for a skirt I wanted to wear, these are both of them... which one is your favourite? Or a couple of people have suggested jeans. We're going bowling, but I do want to look
girly...

Skirt one;

Skirt two;

So I've done this because I had a serious illness that caused me to gain 17 pounds in my twenties due to meds which is a lot on my frame. I was a size 2 prior to steroids, working out and. Orhing about me. Had changed other than that weight on my small frame.

I went up to a size 8 but couldn't help it because I couldn't workout and the meds made me gain weight.

People treated me differently, thought I was a loser (if they didn't know I had a medical condition), even my clients treated me differently.

I had an autoimmune disorder and was lucky enough to find a drug that was $5k a shot every 6 weeks that cured me.

I behan running marsthons again and got raise after raise for losing 22 pounds making me a size 0. Once I was healthy to run the weight fell off and I actuallly had to eat a lot everyday to keep healthy once I was off prednisone for good.

But then sometimes I get asked for a date by guys online, irl or through connections. My first instinct is to wear an outfit that doesn't show my banging body. I don't want him to think she's hot let's go.

I've honestly lost some dates this way and am proud of it. They see me agin in rocking jeans and a tee shirt and want to open the door. But my thought are, you either like me in a pleated dress with an okay body or you don't.

Is it wrong to hide your body to first establish if you like one another at all?