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Currently debating with my friend here. We have different approaches to men. I'm a very nice person, but I also know my value and am confident. I may play hard to get by responding later or not always being available. Very lightly though. I'm typically genuine with the guys I interact with. She, however, thinks you should act snobby and bitchy because men like that. For example, this guy didn't respond to my message for a few days. He's a very busy dude. I only sent one message and when he did respond with an apology, I said no worries, and carried on a conversation as normal. She wanted me to respond with "ya know, some people are just busier than others" in a bitchy like manner. Or to not respond at all, or "you don't have to make up an excuse" or something. I always thought that responding bitchy makes you sound more affected by their behavior, and like you're more bothered. By playing it cool, I thought it shows that you're more like whatever and have a life. She thinks it's showing you're a pushover or like them too much. And I always feel like being nice is a good thing. Who wants a bitchy mean woman?
Who is right?