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these days getting to know strangers is getting easier every day, dating is getting easier but so is attention fishing , basically some people (mostly girls, but some guys) never intend to date you, give you sex or be yours their only objective is to suck attention out of you, maybe gifts and compliments as well if they're lucky , so fall for it but some counter it by moving on and finding someone else.

me personally some girls have done this to me, i found out they had bfs, but liked me physically and wanted my attention, i wasn't very pleased and stopped talking to said girls and moved on, usually i initiate the first time, then the second time if she doesn't , but thats it after 2 initiations if she doesn't get back to me i move on and find another willing girls, its useless wasting time and effort on a girl who is happy talking to me only when i initiate.

I know some guys who who will be the first to reach out to a girl they like everytime, even if she never messages first they will keep messaging her first for months at a time, i can't be like that, and honestly anyone with some dignity and self respect probably can't as well.

So what about you? when someone you're enjoying chatting with decides to stop messaging you or that person never initiates what do you do?

P. S: regardless of what goes through her mind to me not initiating or replying means one thing : she does not like me.

So ever since starting college i have been getting lots of compliments, lots of attention from the ladies, hot women would stare at me, hold eye contact check me out... etc even my friends noticed, and being a college i run into these hot girls often ( i get attention from all sorts of women but i usually notice the attractive ones more) and they always act the same, its like their eyes are locked on me, and they dont look away, they dont move their head, and sometimes even smile, so its gets very annoying very fast, just imagine someone staring at you non stop and watching every move do...

some of you will assume i had something on my face or i looked dirty or something, but no i am always stylish, neat beard and hair cut, smell nice and as clean as a person possibly could be, and as i mentioned i get looks from women a lot, friends noticed, parents and siblings noticed, not to mention the amount of compliments i got and girls i dated in the past, and tbh i never actually made much effort but i still manage to attract girls.


so i go on facebook, add these girls to say hi and figure out who are they and why they are staring the shit out of me and some of them never actually accept my friend request... all i want to know is why? why do girls do that?