More on What It’s Like to Be a 10 out of 10 Guy

[Anonymous]

This is a continuation of the previous myTake.

You know you are attractive

I knew I was good looking since I was five years old or probably earlier than that because people kept complimenting my looks since I was born. I was a very beautiful baby as well. People thought I was a very attractive child. When you’re a 10, you never thought of getting plastic surgery. You don’t think that anything is wrong with your face and most people can barely pick out any flaws either. Overall, you’re satisfied with the way you look.

Freebies and offers

Compared to everyone else, I got special treatment from people. My family was very protective of me as a child. My female teachers have let me get away with sleeping in class. Waitresses have gave me free dessert. People were more willing to hand things to me. There are offers that I don't like getting. I turned down all the sexual offers.

Most people view you in a positive light

People interpret your personality, your actions and your intentions more positively even if you know that your personality isn't good. It's like you judge your personality more harshly than everyone else does. But you really aren't because people overrate the goodness of your character.

Jealous/bitter people view in a negative light

They will never admit that they're jealous and they secretly hate you. Everything you do ticks them off, especially if you show them that you're confident. Their jealousy and bitterness is subtle because they usually either say it behind your back or they keep it inside their heads. Jealous and bitter people came up with a lot of negative assumptions such as I’m full of myself, I didn’t have to work hard to get what I want, and that I have a horrible personality because I’m attractive and I don’t have to be nice.

You’re almost always the best looking person in the room

It makes you stand out of a crowd. I look better than almost all men and I also look better than almost all women. That’s because 10s are rare. Unless I’m around other models, coming across someone just as attractive as me is rare.

People pay a lot of attention to you

People like to talk about the things I did/do. People remember a lot of things about you. People show a lot of interest in you and your personal life. It's like you become a popular topic without even trying.

You look good no matter

If I don’t shave my face, I look attractive. I wear baggy clothes and I rarely wear stylish clothes when I’m out in public, but I still get compliments and stares. I look attractive no matter what I do and what I wear. When I roll out of bed, I look attractive. I look attractive when I get out of the shower. If you’re a 10 out of 10, you look good no matter what you do and what you wear.

People wonder why you’re single

If an attractive person is single, people wonder why they're single. People can make up all sorts of assumptions as they like. I don't want to be in a relationship because I actually like being single. I don't owe anyone my body just because I'm attractive.

People are interested to see what your family looks like

People wonder if your family is attractive as well and they wonder who you got all your looks from. Some people, especially my parents, told me that my brothers are attractive too but I look the best out of all my brothers. And then when they see what my family looks like, they tell me I have an attractive family and that I got most of my looks from my dad. Like what do they expect? My family has the same genes as me.

Girls find excuses/ways to spend more time with you

If you want to talk to me just because I'm attractive then you shouldn't be talking to me at all.

Girls try to avoid other girls from hanging out with you

Girls have tried to prevent other girls from talking to me. Girls have pushed other girls away from me. Girls have fought over me even though I wasn't interested in any of them. This is mate guarding folks...

Guys try to keep their girlfriends away from you

This is mate guarding. They subconsciously know that I’m attractive, so it makes them afraid that they will lose their girlfriends to me even though I’m not interested in their girlfriends. They’d be willing to fight you even if their girlfriend approaches you first.

[CubsterShura]

And then there's me growing up knowing that I'm ugly and I don't meet the beauty standards. No matter how hard I work, how smart I am and how much achievements and scholarships I pile up, I just can't do it.

Ever heard of that Saudi guy being banned from his country because he was so handsome that women stared at him a lot and people were scared he would cause many women to gaze in a sinful way?

Being that much attractive surely has its own negatives but I just wish I either poured acid on myself or just get a good plastic surgery. Not being beautiful is a curse for girls in their lives.

One thing I wanna tell you: you're blessed, truly blessed. I really love your confidence. But don't you think so you should be more humble? Yes brother society is unfair for us and so it is for you too.
Attractiveness is a very sensitive topic among youths. That's why you need to be even more careful of your words and actions because of the attention you get.

Otherwise, keep loving yourself for your blessings, we all love blessings and being born with such a great one, make sure you love it even more and NOT misuse it in any way. :)

[curiousnorway]

You're not ugly and you looks better than the majority of people from my country. : )

[CubsterShura]

@curiousnorway Aww thanks :)

[Anonymous]

what you're saying can make sense if you are a 10 as you say and in all honesty someone is bound to be a 10/10 so i believe you.
iam not a 10 , sure girls stare at nme, compliment me, are nice to me, i can get away with lots of things but not to the point of giving me free stuff (unless you mean on dates then yeah girls offer to pay for me) , it can be hard you get so much attention but taking advantage of it is hard, dating is not easy since you keep getting attention from very attractive ladies who are taken themselves, if you act nice the girl thinks you want to date her...

[NearlyNapping]

I have a friend like that. I've known him for 40 years. In my experience being around him for years, most of this is actually true. (most doesn't mean all)

There was a time when we were in our late 20s, I'd guess he was 27 and I was 29. He had all kind of girls. Plenty of sex, lots of girlfriends, mostly 8+. One day he was freaking out. He wanted to ask this girl out. He was really afraid to ask this girl out. I mean seriously afraid, like a 15 year old asking a girl out for the first time. I kept wondering what the heck was going on since he was such a womanizer. Well it turned out that he had never asked a girl out before. Every single one of those girls in his life had thrown themselves at him and he never had to do a thing.

When we went places together, like out to eat, the server was glued to him. It was like I wasn't even there. Sometimes I had to interrupt just to place my order.

Now he is 58. It has only been in the last few years that girls didn't act like this around him. Some still do, but it's slowing down. Even at 58 I have NO doubt that he could easily get college age girls. Of course not all girls that age would go with a guy his age. But enough will that he wouldn't have a problem.

There is a flip side also. There are plenty enough girls who will throw themselves at a guy like that. But a LOT of girls can't stand a guy like that. My ex was like that. When my friend would visit, she was out the door. She couldn't stand being in the same room as him. As she put it "He thinks his shit doesn't stink." I've known lots of other girls who felt the same way.

"Jealous/bitter people view in a negative light"
Naaah. Sure, a few guys might, but quite honestly most don't give a shit about you one way or the other. Guys mostly just mind their own business when it comes to other guys and their dates.

"Guys try to keep their girlfriends away from you"
You think far too highly of yourself. I seriously doubt that happens.

"People are interested to see what your family looks like"
lol. Gimme a freaking break. They don't give a shit what your family looks like.

"Most of your friends look good as well"
Not buying it. Not unless a guy is awfully stuck on himself and intentionally surrounds himself with good looking guys.

"People are fascinated about how attractive you are"
lolol. Don't flatter yourself too much. You certainly have a lot of advantages, you don't need to use your imagination to come up with stuff.

[vonasaurus]

you remind me of this one guy i knew in high school: he seemed cute at first, but then he opened his mouth and sound came out.

a bloated ego is the world's biggest turn-off. and to assume you're everyone's idea of a 10/10 is just hilarious.

[myTake Owner]

I hate to break it to you but personality doesn't change a person's looks. If you're gonna talk about how ugly someone sounds just imagine how ugly you will sound when you talk about them. And right now, your personality doesn't seem better than mine or the guy you mentioned... It seems worse.

[CoolSky01]

you sound super bitter lady, he actually gave examples of how he's treated by the opposite sex and that is not how an ugly guy is treated trust me.
you talk as if words change how someone look, s no that never happens, you would still fuck him but maybe not date him, i think some girls are assholes but the hot ones are hot no matter what, looks dont change with words, when you're that hot you can literally tell a girl to fk off and she will take it as a joke.

[myTake Owner]

@CoolSky01 Just look at her profile... She does sound bitter. It looks like she's taking out her bitterness on me. I don't think my ego is that big in real life. It would be very naive to think that I talk about this in real life like I do it anonymously over the internet. And my "big ego" doesn't turn anyone off unfortunately... Ego doesn't turn people off. It's how you hurt their feelings that turns them off.

[vonasaurus]

makes perfect sense, because everyone who disagrees with you is obviously bitter.

au contraire~ my life is pretty sweet, and i'm probably happier than you'll ever be. but 10/10 would not bang op, even if he paid me.

if you need your ego stroked by a bunch of strangers on the internet, well...

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[CoolSky01]

iam not mad or sad really if you have a happy life then thats good we all aspire to have great lives, mine isn't perfect but iam working on that.
as for calling you bitter... well thats the nicest word i could use to describe who you insulted OP without a good reason, its the internet and no one is looking for validation we simply want to share our lives anounemsly without anyone knowing our true identity, in real life iam sure he's not an asshole nor has huge ego just like i get compimented a lot but iam still a pretty, laid back, cool and approachalbe guy, even shy sometimes, howeve on here i can discuss more topics since it doesn't directly affect me, worst case scenario iam a called a liar or a bitch and thats it.

if you disagree with him state your reasons and then we can argue, but throwing words around won't get you far in this argument.

[myTake Owner]

@CoolSky01 thanks

@vonasaurus it does make perfect sense because you're the one who didn't read the myTake and is throwing out childish memes... Just because I somehow remind you of a guy who hurt your feelings. And talking about this stuff does trigger people's insecurities and jealousy...

[myTake Owner]

"au contraire~ my life is pretty sweet, and i'm probably happier than you'll ever be. but 10/10 would not bang op, even if he paid me."

First off, I don't/didn't even want to touch you with a 10 foot pole. I can tell that you already know that you are way out of my league if I was interested in sex (if you read, you would've knew I'm not interested in sex lmao). And okay, whatever helps you sleep at night lol because I know you are bitter and YOU need that ego boost. Yeah keep the "insults" coming. I comeback stronger. You are just proving my point further and further :)

[Browneye57]

No, you're only so-so but you've got a huge head and have been told too many times how great you are so you've lost any hope of any humility.

Reminds me of a little quip...
What's the difference between a Porsche and a Porcupine? With the Porsche the prick is on the inside.

:)

[chrisrockwingstop]

thank you for providing this experience to us ugos. I've always wondered just HOW much tail attractive people get, like how much im missing out on life. not because of anything i did or didn't do, but purely based on something that you can't change or have control over. fascinating topic. (not mad, unlike back in the day, at least we uggos get to mate at all lol)

[Dale1982]

Have you any idea how up yourself you sound? Jesus. A man thinking the way you do is a woman repellant, no scrub that a person repellant. Being humble is considered a virtue for a reason. Trust me pal come down to earth a bit and stay away from the mirror and you'll get on with people better. Look up narcissism, it's a word based on a guy who fell in love with his reflection in the water.

[sp33d]

"This is mate guarding. They subconsciously know that I’m attractive, so it makes them afraid that they will lose their girlfriends to me even though I’m not interested in their girlfriends. They’d be willing to fight you even if their girlfriend approaches you first."

It's like I'm reading a blogpost of a teenager. Do you think girls are swayed by looks alone? How naive can you get? :o

[Calwri]

No, he has a point. I'm not 10/10 at all, and that has happened to me, too. I'd just be walking around in public, doing whatever, and I'd pass girls with their boyfriends. The girls would grab their guy's arm and walk closer to him as if to say, "Mine", and some guys have grabbed onto their girlfriends as if to say, "I'm loyal to you, no matter how attractive another girl looks." It could be my imagination, but I'm not certain. When I socialize with people I don't know, I always make sure to look at the girl in the eye (ignoring her boyfriend) to make her feel at ease. It works, too, because she relaxes and begins to like me. I learned to do this because I was tired of girls glaring at me with all their insecurity if I looked at their guy. I'm not interested in stealing anyone's boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

Dude I think puberty recently hit on you. If you are really that attractive, you should have been getting all those benefit from your childhood. And eventually you should believe that this kind of act is same for everyone. For some people a single glance means the girl is totally into him, whereas for another person who is used to get peoples attention, a gaze means nothing.

[Cosytoasty]

lol people didn't get it in your first take, and some still don't get it after your second. 😂

[frozenhorizon]

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[PinkPandaBear180]

Haha you're so full of yourself it's hilarious. I can't believe this myTake got promoted hahaha. Grow up bro lol.

[Dale1982]

Jesus son your 17 and you get it. Well done. Switched on guy 👍

[Vanjasper]

Such conceit. You're so far up your own hole, you must be sick of fucking yourself!

[coachTanthony]

When I roll out of bed I look attractive LMAO... genius... love these.. . keep them up!

[brain5000]

I read both of these. How old are you?

[myTake Owner]

Twenty two

[brain5000]

They're both great and seem totally believable. If you were also a star student athlete I imagine there would be some great stories.

[myTake Owner]

Thanks and I was one of the best athletes in high school.

[Wontstop]

sorry bro your anon no picture
and I saw the other take how do we even know that's you?

think about it

[Anonymous]

Ok you are atrractive good for you but it seems liek you have a problem with that do you have any idea what it feels like to be a 3/10 or 5/10 guy so just cool down on that

[Anonymous]

Ok you just may look attractive but your personality sounds not attractive.

[Anonymous]

Wondering why I'm single... I fucking get this all the time. On the other hand my family is ugly to be honest... and modest. I love them, but... my opinion about their looks is honest.

[Anonymous]

Im a 10/10 just like you too but I never get freebies.

Also guys aren't wary of me because they can't see how hot I am.

[Anonymous]

you just sound overconfident which is actually a turn off... hmm so that's why you are single

[Anonymous]

I know I m handsome too but my problem is I didn't know how to take advantage of it.

[ChocEyes1]

Hehe, I see what you did there XD