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I've been on and off with this girl who I've thought was the love of my life, and it's been almost 6 years now. We aren't the same religion and that's the problem. Everytime she gets closer to the church, she breaks things off and eventually comes back to me.
She seems to not like dealing with the unknown and what she can't deal with and runs away. In our relationship and in life.
Anyway how often do people in this situation end up together?

Imagine your gf/bf broke up with you and wanted to be friends. If you want to get them back as a lover, they say there is a rule you should follow after the breakup. It's called no contact rule which means you should not text or call them for a period of time so they can miss you and the memories you had together and also they will see what it's like to live without you. No contact rule is an option. The second one is to keep talking to them so they don't forget about you and there is a chance you still can get their attraction with the way you talk. What do you think and which one would you choose? And also when do you think no contact rule should end?

Guys i am genderfluid male attracted mostly to tomboyish females its like a gender role reversal thing hope u got that cause i hate explaining it so much anyways there is that gorgeous girl who seems to be in love with me since beginning of high school she used to flirt with me even saying good stuff about me she tried back then to talk to me twice but i just ignored her completely cause i had that feeling we r not compatible cause i like philosophy and science and she barely knows anything about she seems smart socially but not that much with thinkin and imagination not geeky what i meant to say she is just perfect as lover but not someone that i can share all my life with like we can have awesome sex and romance but i don't think we can think the sane way or together also and i am not sure i can trust her lots of people say she is a player last days she was like doing anything to be with me but i feel like this relationship is not gonna work although i know its rare to find a female who loves me like her or be like that with like her but i have a strong feelin we won't work cause i don't think i can live with any females but tomboyish geeky ones she act tomboyish the way i love but she is not geeky at all and the fact that i can't really know if she is doing all of this just to get me and satisfy her eggo is confusing me so much
Would u guys try such a relationship if u know with high percentage it won't work or just wait for ur perfect fit even when u know geeky tomboyish females are so rare
I can't really stand a hurt feelings or leaving someone who got. A place in my life it is just frustrating for me do u think that kind of relationship would work?

So suppose you die. Either unexpected or expected.
you have a lover or a spouse, who feels sad to the bottom seeing your corpse.
i know this seems maybe stupid but the question is: Would you mind if your "widowed" partner would later on get back into dating and maybe even marrying someone else after your death?