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so recently, i've been talking to someone and we hit it off really well. He lives in LA and i live in Singapore so there's a time difference but when we talked, i told him to sleep but he'd say things like "but i'd be losing time not talking to you". we also always give and get good morning and good night texts from each other. we even made plans, he called it "our bucket list" which was really sweet. then suddenly the next week, we talked less and good morning and good night text stopped. what's weird is that on instagram he'd drop answers on my questions section saying "heyy, i hope you're good, you know i have a lot of love for you" and he would comment really sweet things. on my youtube channel he left 2 paragraphs on 2 different videos to remind me of how great i am but he just doesn't message me directly. i asked my friends and she told me that if he was a player he wouldn't have bothered making 'contact' for this long and would not have bothered writing paragraphs for me. when i double text him or text him first he does reply but i never know when he's not going to reply. He's really passionate with his career right now so i don't know if its that i need to give him time or that he's just not interested anymore. please help out here, i 'm really confused