Should you break up with someone you love because their health is getting too much for you?

David_Kek
Should you break up with someone you love because their health is getting too much for you?
I've only ever been in love twice in my life, and this is the first one i've loved who's ever loved me, and i don't know if it's gonna work out.
My girlfriend whom i broke up with for a year an a half came back into my life recently, and i very quickly started to realise that i was falling in love with her. We got togther a few years ago, and we said we'f keep it a secret, yet our chemistry is so good all of our mutual friends knew, it was clear from space we were going out. She loved me earily on, and yet i've resisted at every step, going threw heartbreak from the only other woman i ever loved who betrayed me.

When we did break up last year becasue i was going through a hard time, niether of us moved on or dated anyone else, we both stayed in each others mind. When i came back, there was no doubt we were soul mates, but there was a lot of denial on my part not wanting to get hurt again. Well too late, i am in love with her, and now i'm terrorified of losing her.

Her health is in a petty bad shape right now, to the point she might be bed bound or in and outr of hospitals for life. When we talked of the possiblity that she migth need a hysterectomy, meaning she'll never have children or be able to give me them, she told me that she'd break up with me if she ever thought she'd be holding me back.

She might get better and everything migth work out, but it's possible it won't. And right now i don't know what to do.
If i leave her it'll kill me, knowing i'll have broken her heart again and that i'll never find anyone like her, but if i stay and she only gets worse, it'll kill me seeing her this way and knowing that she feels bad for being a burden on me knowing i could "do better".

I don't know what to do. What would you do?
Should you break up with someone you love because their health is getting too much for you?
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