Will my ex feel jealous if I move on with someone else?

[rodneyrox]

Just recently ended a relationship of only 10 months but it was the first time I was involved with someone after the seperation. I have 3 kids and she knew about it and was clear well before we started dating. She seemed fine with it. We had a distance problem and to top it off I would only see her every other weekend which was hard on me. I broke it off but then regretted it and tried to fix it. Apparently she started thinking about things and all of a sudden she said she wants to experience having a baby with someone that doesn’t have one and that she wanted to be the first priority. I mean I cared and even loved her but I don’t think it’s losing her that’s hurting but more so the reasons why. It’s been really bugging me.

[rjroy3]

Not sure it's a good idea to try. Since the reasons for the breakup and mutual understanding seems reasonable on both ends. What will making her jealous serve? Your ego a bit, because after you already dumped her she decided it's better to be broken up?

If you're the one who ended it you kind of don't have a place to be upset, especially since she seemed to be respectful about it all. Coming back around to make her jealous as a means to get her back in my mind wouldn't be a good idea

[rjroy3]

But yes, jealousy has short term results

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you think her reason is contrived or fabricated?
Are you bothered because there is nothing you can do to remedy this problem or concern that she has?

[Anonymous]

it depends does she still try to reach out to you does she still try to hang out With you or has she gotten on with her life since the breakup if she is still in your life and still hanging out with you here and there I think she will get jealous however if she has accepted the breakup and barely contacts you and she has gotten on with her life then I think it is safe to safe no she won’t get jealous

[theronaldmcdonald]

Shouldn’t matter. If you are to move on, do so. If you are not, don’t. Her opinion is not relevant anymore. You don’t owe her anything and vice versa. I cannot emphasize this enough: look deeply at yourself and your feelings and determine what is best for you. It’s not easy but it is necessary. Best of luck!!

[Snakeyes7]

If your ex left you then who gives a shit what they think? They made the decision to leave you and therefore they have no right to be jealous with what you do with yourself afterwards.

If you left your ex then that’s completely understandable. They probably didn’t want you to leave and now they feel that the person you are with now is better than them regardless of the reason for the breakup.

[Avicenna]

Well, it doesn't sound like she saw a good fit there between you. Taking care of a child is not easy, so it's fair for her to expect her partner to be there with her to help.

[rodneyrox]

Asides going to work..
I'm all round helping..

[arabgoddess]

Is your intention to make her feel jealous? .. Sort your head out and decide what girl you want to spend your life with

[Laozi]

May be. Or may be not. It's over now. So you should move on without thinking of her.

[meltwithme]

Depends how things ended and if they truly care there will always be a tiny bit of healthy jealously. Major jealously nobody likes.

[Gedaria]

Being your ex says it all. You are no longer together , free agent.