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What I mean is by this question is: can someone who doesn't have you preferred looks (to each their own) can become hotter than hell to you with the right personality. I think yes and I have some funny stories about it:
At my local Family Dollar, there's a woman who works there and she's HOT, and I mean HOT! She's got the genetic lottery working in her favor, she's got a pretty face, big butt, wide hips, perfect size boobs, and a small stomach, she could easily be on a cover of a magazine. But whenever I see her, she always has this real bitch attitude. She looks at you as if you dog shit, she's always sighing and rolling her eyes, and she always talks to people as if you did her wrong. To me, even with her beauty, because of the way she acts, she's hideous (and even as far as unfuckable) to me 😒 . BUT , another story: I remember I went to the same high school with this one girl who stole my heart (I didn't date her, or anyone for personal reasons). She didn't have the appearance I prefer in a partner, she was a little redneckish, she was quite a bit chubby (but she did sports like track and power lifting), and she was about 3 or 4 years older than me, but I will admit her face and her smile was to die for. But even with those "setbacks" (lack of a better word sorry) she was very nice, kind, considerate, and flirty. When she talked to you, sh made you feel special and important, and she did this this thing where after a conversation she would drag her hand across my chest in a flirty way as she walked away (which I adored). Even though her looks didn't exactly fit my preference, she found a way to put hearts in my eyes 😍. And to be honest, if I were ready to date at the time, I defiantly would have dated her. But what do you think? Do you agree? Do you have a similar story?

I've always been one to advocate for body positivity, but am I really being a hypocrite for wanting a well endowed man?

So let me give a quick background on this subject.

My ex-boyfriend of 6 months was genuinely one of the best men I've ever known. He had a smile that could stop you right in your tracks. A face legit sculpted by the gods. A personality to die for. He is an incredible guy. Not to sound pretentious. Like as if I'm rubbing him In y'alls face. I'm just trying to help u visualize for the sake of my question. His body was perfection. I've never been picky when it came to looking for a guy. As long as we click and get along well that's all that matters.

I never saw a problem with his size till after we broke up. I was just thinking of all the good times we had, while simultaneously eating my feelings away, when I realized something. I never truly got off while we were together. I always came but on my own accord. Dont get me wrong he was a very tinder lover. Alwayse took my needs into consideration. Always pushed me to try new things in, and out, of bed. But his dick never ACTUALLY satisfied me. Granted he was amazing at everything else, just not when it came to using his dick. He was about 5' inches when hard.

So is that me judging him, or simply having a preference. If the relationship hadn't ended I dont think I ever would have said anything. But now that it's over I feel like it's ok to talk about.

Were still best friends. Were still attached at the hip. Were still there for eachother. But I dont feel right keeping it to myself.

Please reframe from leaving hate on this question. Its something that I've wondered about for a while now, and am simply wanting an answer.

Thanks in advance😊

It is not transphobic to decide that you don’t want to date a specific trans person based on your preferences in personality, hobbies, social beliefs, body type, etc.

It is, however, deeply transphobic to decide that you never want to date any transgender person ever, and the choice to draw such a line is rooted in ignorance, fear, and disgust of trans people.

Trans people are simply people who were mistakenly assigned the wrong gender at birth.

To categorically exclude all people from that group, who would otherwise align with your sexuality (trans men for a straight woman, trans women for a straight man, etc.) is not only missing out on many potential connections you could have with people who you would otherwise have a wonderful time dating, but also reinforces the oppressive social system that says transgender women aren’t “really” women because they were assigned male at birth, and vice versa for trans men.