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this is over distance we met a few years ago at a mutual friends party and started talking online
I met this woman a few months ago and last night she finally admitted that she likes me but the thing is I can see that she is very afraid of being vulnerable whereas I am not she seems to have fear of abandonment

Anyway she obtains her income by being on social media and she posts a lot of things relating to her work on this. The thing is she posts things like if a man is not as successful as her she cannot even be around him. Whereas with me I can associate with anyone I do not care who they are

She claims that I am like family to her and she did wear her best outfit for me on my birthday

she says things about her friends to me and she seems very upset when her friends think she is weird but she also says that she is so confident that she doesn’t care what others think of her

She says on her social media that she wants a guy who is wealthy. But with me she claims that money does not matter to her when it comes to love

she told me that her social media is just a game and she also told me when this guy was sending her gifts that it was just a game as part of the social media

She asks guys their height

She has lip fillers and spends a lot of money on her appearance (not that this matters but it may help with your assessment)

She said that she could not even be around a man who isn’t as successful as her but thing is I am just some ordinary guy

I have helped her with one part of her social media and I have achieved massive results for her whereas on her own she was fairly idle and just quite lazy with it

I am qualified in communications so I know how to increase audience

I don’t know what to think of this

Should I stay with her or go?

I do like her and she knows it but I don’t know if she’s being real with me or fake as in she is fake in general and just wants me to remain in her life so she does not feel vulnerable

if I delete her I may lose her forever

PLEASE READ: If she wasn't my sister, I'd have a hard time caring about her. That being said, she's far from the worst person, and she's usually super sweet, but she'll never ever give up an argument against me, and her final say is "I don't want to talk about this, so stop talking about it."

I'm a very curious person, but I'm not someone to make false claims, so I might ask something like, "Don't you think women are less decisive in general?" I am curious about what she thinks, but she'll get offended and say NO that's sexist even though I'm simply asking what she thinks. I actually think many women would even agree with me on this point by the way.

My sister is super set on equality too. I know what many of you are thinking, "of course" but the truth is men and women are not the same. We were actually walking together, and for those of you who don't know the sidewalk rule, it says that the man should be on the outside, so he can protect the woman in case of danger from cars. This is normally used in a romantic setting but I genuinely wanted to walk on the outside because I know I'm much stronger than she is, but guess what? I didn't because I thought she would be offended.

Do you agree or disagree with the sidewalk rule?

Do you think my sister would've been offended? For those of you who are thinking, "why don't you just ask?", it's because then we might get into an argument and I don't like negativity around me. I have to go to a birthday party soon.