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So I've done this because I had a serious illness that caused me to gain 17 pounds in my twenties due to meds which is a lot on my frame. I was a size 2 prior to steroids, working out and. Orhing about me. Had changed other than that weight on my small frame.

I went up to a size 8 but couldn't help it because I couldn't workout and the meds made me gain weight.

People treated me differently, thought I was a loser (if they didn't know I had a medical condition), even my clients treated me differently.

I had an autoimmune disorder and was lucky enough to find a drug that was $5k a shot every 6 weeks that cured me.

I behan running marsthons again and got raise after raise for losing 22 pounds making me a size 0. Once I was healthy to run the weight fell off and I actuallly had to eat a lot everyday to keep healthy once I was off prednisone for good.

But then sometimes I get asked for a date by guys online, irl or through connections. My first instinct is to wear an outfit that doesn't show my banging body. I don't want him to think she's hot let's go.

I've honestly lost some dates this way and am proud of it. They see me agin in rocking jeans and a tee shirt and want to open the door. But my thought are, you either like me in a pleated dress with an okay body or you don't.

Is it wrong to hide your body to first establish if you like one another at all?

I am going on a date tomorrow and am a bit lost choosing what to wear since it is a date with another girl. I know it shouldn't matter so much but since it's my first date with a girl I'm kinda nervous and I don't want to come across weird to her in going over the top or underdressing. My flatmate said that I should dress more girly than I usually do and after much discussion, I agreed with her as my date said she prefers girls in skirts. We have spent most of this weekend trying to pick an outfit and we came out with three. My flatmate likes the outfits with the flats better as she says they're cuter but I'm still not sure. I'm equally comfortable wearing all of them so which one do you think is best?

I'm going to #StealHerStyle
yea, yea I know... get your own
but I own clothing thats similar to hers

I know we'll do a lot of walking, but I dont mind standing in heels for long periods of time. However, I will probably wear flats or sneakers or boots with most of these outfits.