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My boyfriend and I've been together for nearly 3 years. We rarely argument (if so, he steps out and comes back later on) and everything's going good.

Now I'm going to briefly explain where does the hitting part comes. Many times when he surprises me (ex: I can be in the kitchen), we're in bed or just walking out he slaps my bottom. It can range from mild to average all the way to hard and sometimes I get a couple bruises as a result. Thing is I don't really mind. It can only be done by him though; if it's some random guy, he can get either a punch or a nasty suki-nage (I know how to fight, lol).

However, my closest friend Tiffany one day caught this as we were hanging out and didn't like it. He slapped the right side twice and it was hard (it was bruised the next day). She was shocked that I was ok with it. She kept saying how she doesn't think that was right, that it's hitting, etc.

In my view, hitting your partner (in a real DV situation) is when you take your anger on someone, it's unexpected and usually it's not done on the bottom. I've never been with a violent guy and if that were the case, before the cops even show up only one person would be found on the floor seeing stars in the head and that wouldn't be me.