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So this is gonna be a weird one but I'm weird so there. I want to put this out there that I am looking for a girl friend. I dont wanna keep going online because that has gone nowhere so my option is too just start talking to them. I wanted to find places to meet them I was just at the beach but didn't say a word. However I am starting to learn the art of speech slowly but surely. I just need to find events to attend to force me to talk. I wanted to find a place where people are having fun and there are tons of women with guards down so to speak. While I know at this run men might well outnumber women I still think there will be enough single women for me try my skills on. So the question becomes is this a decent venue I mean as I discussed in another question and thought what better way to break the ice but wearing a dress can't go much lowerr on the humiliation scale after that so I can only go up lol. Also if it is not then how do you guys like my current plan. Step 1 hit the gym and get ripped by next year. I am dedicated so I think I can do it. Step 2 hire a stylist to pick clothes for me and improve my hair and overall look. Step 3 start talking to women and learn confidence.

So maybe when people get older (late twenties) then women really wanna marry and stuff but in relation to young people, I think girls don't want relationships. At least not as much as guys. From my experience, many guys would love a great girlfriend and be exclusive and all that. Many young guys (I'm mainly talking about college students) want relationships. Not just sex but they'll take sex if girls come on to them.

When it comes to girls, I think they are the opposite. Many young girls don't want a relationships. I guess the media, feminism and culture these days is that women don't need men and are better off alone or some shit. Not to mention how everything encourages women to sleep around. I guess many girls are too ambitious these days. Every girl wants to be successful and therefore they don't have the time to date. This is just the way I see it. But I see a lot of girls avoiding relationships, and instead having casual sex in the veins of having fuckbuddies, fwbs as well as the odd hookup with a rando. I am not saying all girls hate and avoid relationships but I do think most girls these days, especially college girls hate dating and just wanna have fun, while they focus on career.

I also hate the way guys are labelled for only wanting sex and girls are labelled for wanting love and stuff. That couldn't be more false in my opinion. To me, the averge American girl wants to have fun and not get tied down, and a lot of guys want more than just sex but hey I could be wrong. This is just from my experience which is naturally linear, I guess it might just be my area but I've seen things like this on the internet and stuff so many it's the norm, I'm not sure.